Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Post Annie's!

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Docs, why do you fvcking care?
 
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Docs said:
My answer would not matter to you.
I guess the question you should be concerning yourself with is whether you care?
I am actually very interested in why you have been so interested in post counts.

Siunce you started on this site, you had you 500 post anniversary, and a 1000 post anniversary. Now this week you have begun to celebrate other peoples "annie's"

So I ask again, why do you care?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I didn't mention anything about a 1500 post annie for my did I? I guess it can't be all that.

And I mention it because there's no sense of community here, no one here knows anyone, and fewer yet ask what's up. So, I guess I wanted to bring attention to a specific thing, so possibly someone would answer with some recongition, and something can be gained from this.

Nothing is as trival as you may think, objective lies behind every action. Now, wouldn't it make sense to have a good attitude towards more things, instead of wallowing over something completely irrevelent to yourself?
 
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*BIG dumb smiles*

Thanks docs, I knew you would have a semi answer to my problem.

Yeah, I completely agree with you saying there is no community. People have been telling me to leave for a long time though. I am not part of this place I am told, just a regular troll.

I just wanted to accuse you of the same thing, I knew you had the frame I was looking for:)
 

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Stackthestyles said:
*BIG dumb smiles*

Thanks docs, I knew you would have a semi answer to my problem.

Yeah, I completely agree with you saying there is no community. People have been telling me to leave for a long time though. I am not part of this place I am told, just a regular troll.

I just wanted to accuse you of the same thing, I knew you had the frame I was looking for:)
I'm pretty good then, to answer a problem you never even presented to me, right on!! ^_^ :woo:

And everyone belongs as long as you have something useful to contribute for the greater of the community. :D
 
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