"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
post a picture of a celeb that is most like the type that you are attracted to
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- Start date
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
gösta berling
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SrDedosRapidos
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http://www.catwalkqueen.tv/SAG - Christina Hendricks in Carolina Herrera.jpg
I wonder how long it will take for the insecure to begin flaming each other for their taste...
I wonder how long it will take for the insecure to begin flaming each other for their taste...
taiyuu_otoko
Master Don Juan
backbreaker
Master Don Juan
aw man taiyuu i thought she was pretty freaking hot in that movie
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Maxtro
Master Don Juan
Gemma Arterton
http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v...emieres/Quantum of Solace/GemmaArterton01.jpg
thwoar
http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v...emieres/Quantum of Solace/GemmaArterton01.jpg
thwoar
Powerlifter
Senior Don Juan
This actress gets my blood circulating...Ali Larter has that fresh look about her that I like and looks like she'd smell good too but wouldn't care to get dirty.
I am drawn to girls like this but personality is a must along with the sexy look another would be someone like Jennifer Aniston someone who doesn't take life so serious and would be fun to be around.
http://images.paraorkut.com/img/pics/glitters/a/ali_larter_-10838.jpg
Powerlifter
I am drawn to girls like this but personality is a must along with the sexy look another would be someone like Jennifer Aniston someone who doesn't take life so serious and would be fun to be around.
http://images.paraorkut.com/img/pics/glitters/a/ali_larter_-10838.jpg
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Sandee Westgate
Ex playmate, now pornstar :rockon:
Sh!t I would seriously jizz my pants if a girl this hot passed by...
Should she be blond she wouldn't effect me but those brunette goddesses make me drool and go looney :crazy:
They mostly ruin that moment by starting to talk and prove to be as dumb as sh!t...
Edit: Nice bottle of absolute vodka in the back
Ex playmate, now pornstar :rockon:
Sh!t I would seriously jizz my pants if a girl this hot passed by...
Should she be blond she wouldn't effect me but those brunette goddesses make me drool and go looney :crazy:
They mostly ruin that moment by starting to talk and prove to be as dumb as sh!t...
Edit: Nice bottle of absolute vodka in the back
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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http://jayread.co.uk/blog/wp-content/uploads/2009/12/Brittany_Murphy_004943_.jpg
So ****ed up, neurotic, dysfunctional, slutty, crazy and hot. I love the crazy ones. I'd dig her up and hit it right now.
http://jayread.co.uk/blog/wp-content/uploads/2009/12/Brittany_Murphy_004943_.jpg
So ****ed up, neurotic, dysfunctional, slutty, crazy and hot. I love the crazy ones. I'd dig her up and hit it right now.
Bladerunner
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
I hate having to choose just one since I'm attracted to such a wide variety of looks, but I think I'd take this if I had the choice:
http://hiphopvideomodels.net/kaaydahMarie/images/kaaydah_marie - 5.jpg
http://hiphopvideomodels.net/kaaydahMarie/images/kaaydah_marie - 5.jpg
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Thats f$$ckedd upp!!Warrior74 said:
Plinco
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.