"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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HGKnights

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I asked this girl on a date via online dating.


ME:"If you aren't busy sometime early next week, how'd you feel about going out and grabbing a bite? It's fun talking to you on here and all, but I'd rather continue in person!

:p posssibly! Though I don't have a car -.- and I dun has monies.. I'm still looking for work.. And I honestly would rather have money =/ blehhh lol

Is she ****ing me around or should I push the date idea further?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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floydb25

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Too much asking... Not enough leading... IE, "We should go to...I'm going to, and want you to come with..." instead of, "Would you like to... Is it ok if we... Are you free to..."

Beyond that, this girl sounds like a bum. Why would you want to date someone who has no car or job? So you can pay for everything and take her everywhere?
 
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She gave like 50 excuses in one sentence. Sounds like a waste of time to me.
 
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Serg897

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Agree with the previous two posters. You want a girl that can communicate coherently if you ask me.
 
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Mantis Toboggan

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I would answer this question, but I have to finish my laundry, blow dry my hair, and my mom is calling.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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