"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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HGKnights

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I asked this girl on a date via online dating.


ME:"If you aren't busy sometime early next week, how'd you feel about going out and grabbing a bite? It's fun talking to you on here and all, but I'd rather continue in person!

:p posssibly! Though I don't have a car -.- and I dun has monies.. I'm still looking for work.. And I honestly would rather have money =/ blehhh lol

Is she ****ing me around or should I push the date idea further?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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floydb25

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Too much asking... Not enough leading... IE, "We should go to...I'm going to, and want you to come with..." instead of, "Would you like to... Is it ok if we... Are you free to..."

Beyond that, this girl sounds like a bum. Why would you want to date someone who has no car or job? So you can pay for everything and take her everywhere?
 
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She gave like 50 excuses in one sentence. Sounds like a waste of time to me.
 
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Agree with the previous two posters. You want a girl that can communicate coherently if you ask me.
 
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I would answer this question, but I have to finish my laundry, blow dry my hair, and my mom is calling.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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