Possibly wishful thinking. Does she mean anything by this?

[Sgthaytham]

This concerns the girl I’m supposedly dating from the last thread I’ve made.

Anyway, we haven’t spoken for two days until she sent me a picture on Messenger.

It reads:

“Therapeutic Education

Sexual relationships

No contradictions”

And the caption “I’m relieved ”



Seems strange to send this...

I hate overthinking, but it struck me as meaning something.


Any idea how I should respond?

“You trying to suggest something?”

Or something else?

 

[Sgthaytham]

Update:

She’s told me that this month is going to be difficult because of her exams (she’s studying to become a nurse). She said we could try a Sunday. I told her that we’d see and to keep in touch.

I think this is a dead end.

 

[sazc]

If she sends you a text that is confusing, just reply and say "I'm not following what you are trying to commincate?" And let her clarify.

 

[Sgthaytham]

If she sends you a text that is confusing, just reply and say "I'm not following what you are trying to commincate?" And let her clarify.

Any thoughts on my update?

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Ignore. Only allow Netflix and chill .Don't meet up outside the house. No more text respond . Go have sex.

 

[sazc]

Any thoughts on my update?

Your update basically said that she told you she was going to be very busy for a long time.

Text her and tell her to hit you up when she had some free time.

Go find other women to date

 

[Sgthaytham]

Your update basically said that she told you she was going to be very busy for a long time.

Text her and tell her to hit you up when she had some free time.

Go find other women to date

Yeah, I’ve told her to get in touch when she’s less busy.

So is it less about her not being interested and more about her being too busy?

I have no experience of the time demand one has when they’re studying to be a nurse, but I can understand it’ll be quite a bit.

 

[Billtx49]

Yeah, I’ve told her to get in touch when she’s less busy.

So is it less about her not being interested and more about her being too busy?

I have no experience of the time demand one has when they’re studying to be a nurse, but I can understand it’ll be quite a bit.

Sending the original message that you don’t understand and confuses you means she doesn’t have the nerve to tell you what’s really on her mind, so don’t expect any decent answers from her. She’s either not interested anymore or it’s the wrong time in her life to get involved with you.
Find other women.

 

[CBear]

Yeah, I’ve told her to get in touch when she’s less busy.

So is it less about her not being interested and more about her being too busy?

I have no experience of the time demand one has when they’re studying to be a nurse, but I can understand it’ll be quite a bit.

If one studies to be a nurse, they don't have much time for anything. She might be free during one weekend but there's basically no chance she'll be dating anyone unless she's just using it as an excuse and doesn't want to see you.
By reading what you wrote, however, I'm guessing she might be too busy and at the same time doesn't really care about going out with you. But she did leave a maybe.

Simple solution is to stop caring, leave the door open for the future, and spin plates.

 

[sazc]

So is it less about her not being interested and more about her being too busy?

I'm not sure why it matters one way or the other? There's nothing for you there, look elsewhere.