"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Possibly The BEST MOST IMPORTANT advice..

dakota

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SO I was thinking about what if you were in an elevator..
NOW this is ONLY if the elevator is at LEAST 12 stories high AND is going UP.... AND you get on the THIRD floor and a HB 7.712568 gets on the FIFTH FLOOR. Anyhow the following is THE BEST BY FAR thing you could EVER do if BOTH of you are getting of at the 11th floor AND there just so happens to be a company on the 11th floor that specializes in.......
OH GOD, that was scary reading all those posts was starting to turn me into... ok now though. Whew that was close.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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mr_elor said:
I think he's having a dig at all the posts along the lines of: "THIS TACTIC WILL WORK..." etc ;). The type of posts written by SkipToMyLou (and others).

I think so anyway, I'm still a bit confused TBH

(If I'm right dakota please use a smiley of some sort next time to denote sarcasm)

Sorry I thought it would be self understood..:) is that better:D
 

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haha ok... I'm a pretty sharp guy, usually, but this one just had my head spinning. My "sosuave selective post reading skills" have evolved to the point where i ignore 90% of those posts so i wasn't getting the joke.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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