"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Possibly The BEST MOST IMPORTANT advice..

dakota

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SO I was thinking about what if you were in an elevator..
NOW this is ONLY if the elevator is at LEAST 12 stories high AND is going UP.... AND you get on the THIRD floor and a HB 7.712568 gets on the FIFTH FLOOR. Anyhow the following is THE BEST BY FAR thing you could EVER do if BOTH of you are getting of at the 11th floor AND there just so happens to be a company on the 11th floor that specializes in.......
OH GOD, that was scary reading all those posts was starting to turn me into... ok now though. Whew that was close.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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mr_elor said:
I think he's having a dig at all the posts along the lines of: "THIS TACTIC WILL WORK..." etc ;). The type of posts written by SkipToMyLou (and others).

I think so anyway, I'm still a bit confused TBH

(If I'm right dakota please use a smiley of some sort next time to denote sarcasm)

Sorry I thought it would be self understood..:) is that better:D
 

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haha ok... I'm a pretty sharp guy, usually, but this one just had my head spinning. My "sosuave selective post reading skills" have evolved to the point where i ignore 90% of those posts so i wasn't getting the joke.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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