"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Possibly dating a nympho

PapiChulo

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I am currently living in Lima, Peru. I have been going out with this girl for a bit more than two weeks. Really nice girl, great upbeat personality, same age as me, still lives with her parents (in Peru it's normal). So we started out as friends actually, since we have similar hobbies and went out on a bunch of dates without sex! I was a little suspicious about that. So during the weekend, we did start having sex. And hell, she keeps having one orgasm after another. We had sex maybe 6 times during 16 hours or so. I am not sure if I can keep up (no longer 20 years old). She tells she has not been with anyone for a year!? Anybody dealt with this kind of thing, because I think she might be a nympho and it's only the beginning? She is very small, and I can tell she is already fantasizing about things and locations we can do it at. It's fun and scares me a little bit. To add, she is also very athletic, a lot of energy. Cheers!
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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El Payaso

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It's the start of a relationship so it's not shocking. The question is if she'll still be fvcking your brains out two or three years into the relationship. Just enjoy it for now.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Billtx49

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If she is really a nympho, enjoy her until she starts seeking fresh meat.…
Chances are though, she was only really horny for whatever reason, and with a new man. (You)
 
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She tells she has not been with anyone for a year!? Anybody dealt with this kind of thing, because I think she might be a nympho and it's only the beginning?
It's only in the beginning. If she's not been with anyone for a year she's understandably horny as fvck. Activity will probably decline to a reasonable level, enjoy and don't worry.
 

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Boy, if you think she's really a nympho, you've got a lot to learn. Are there nymphos out there? Sure. Are they common? Nope. If I had a nickel for every serious or girlfriend I've had or heard of that starts out like "I'm so horny, I want to do it all the time" and then dries up after you get serious and/or are in an LTR, I'd be retired. Enjoy it while it lasts but watch the drop after about a year, 2 years max. Then get back to us. She's trying to get you hooked, same approach, different chick. Give us one more piece of information to confirm: Are you well off at all?
 

PapiChulo

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Thanks for the responses. I might have jumped the gun. The sex is at a reasonable level now, she was just horny, waiting to get off. I am not a rich guy by any means, but I am looking for an ltr right now. At least I get a chance of not having to deal with Canadian women for some time and I could wife up a decent woman, even though the local ones come with their own set of issues.
 

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That just sounds like a normal high sex drive unless she wants it 6 times a day 7 days a week indefinitely.

Be wary of this girl being the type of girl who gets more boring as time goes on
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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skinnyguy

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Dude, you’re in Peru. Those chicks have sex for breakfast.

The local issues have a TON of issues especially the ones who have been pumped and dumped. A lot of them come from extreme poverty and end up having to sell their azz.
 

marmel75

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Thanks for the responses. I might have jumped the gun. The sex is at a reasonable level now, she was just horny, waiting to get off. I am not a rich guy by any means, but I am looking for an ltr right now. At least I get a chance of not having to deal with Canadian women for some time and I could wife up a decent woman, even though the local ones come with their own set of issues.

Don't "look" for anything. It leads to you making bad decisions and trying to justify things that shouldnt be
 
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