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That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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possible to take too much whey or milk?

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anything wrong with taking a lot of milk (4+ pints skimmed milk) a day? or 5 or 6 scoops whey?
 

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She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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No but you're wasting your money. Your body can't absorb that much protein. 1g per lb. of body weight is just fine.
 
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Originally posted by Lost Cause
No but you're wasting your money. Your body can't absorb that much protein. 1g per lb. of body weight is just fine.
6 scoops whey - 150g protein

4 pints skim milk - 64g protein

depending on what you weigh 214g protein is fine. However, I'd lay off so much milk... that's overkill... drink 2 pints of milk and eat more lean meats instead.
 

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I'm actually just getting into clean eating and whatnot...it seems that whey is the easiest way to get my 180 (more or less) grams of protein daily. I'm thinking of a 40/40/20 deal, but when I track it on fitday.com, it seems the bulk of my calories still come from carbs, because my protein sources tend to be high in carbs as well. Should I be ok with turkey on whole wheat for lunch for part of my protein, and then maybe 2 servings of whey daily? Even protein bars have like 30g of carbs, and I'd rather not deal with that.
 

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Whey, which is (nearly) lactose free and pre digested, is very easy to digest. Milk, because of lactose, is more difficult and less efficient to digest.
 

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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I bought some cottage cheese last night (never really had it before, that I can remember), because everyone says you should eat a small bowl before bed, because of the protein. It was HORRID. Tasted like rotten milk, and had the consistency of lumpy vomit. I ended up throwing it out, but made a shake with some this morning


milk
a banana
some raw oatmeal (rolled oats)
cottage cheese
cinnamon powder

Threw it all in the blender, and it wasn't half bad.
 

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Mr. Latte, I'm guessing you had the non fat kind? I can't stand that crap either. Low fat tastes 10x better though. And you're right about it being a great thing to eat before bed. Casien is the actual high protein food found in cottage cheese, which in addition to being a great source of protein, it also improves nitrogen retention and prevents muscle loss while you sleep (and go 8 hours without food).

Should I be ok with turkey on whole wheat for lunch for part of my protein, and then maybe 2 servings of whey daily?
As long as it's actual sliced turkey breast and not the processed crap that's made of random turkey meat gelled together. There's really nothing wrong with having carbs with your protein - infact it's probably healthier to eat that way for most meals.
 

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Your body can only process 20g of protein an hour.
 

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From what I know the latest studies have shown that the old myth that the human body can only digest 30g of protein at once is completely wrong. However I think 480 grams of protein should be enough ;-)
 

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Julian, the amount of protein that can be used at a time varies from person to person, depending on their weight, muscle mass, and activity level. That 20g per person could very well be the figure for your average sedentary male, while a male who's blasting his muscles in the gym 3 days a week could digest much more. The whole purpose of protein is to repair and build muscle tissue, so if you’re ripping up your muscle tissue in the gym, obviously more protein would be needed to repair all that tissue and build a little more tissue so you can support that weight better next time.
 

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Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I can't stand any form of cottage cheese. I have a can of 98% fat free tuna before bed, is that a good alternative to the cottage cheese?
 

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Mr Hash, tuna should work well too as a protein source. Just be careful of mercury if you eat too much tuna - it can make you bald and cause other health problems.
 
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