"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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possible to get a 6 pack in 8 weeks?

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I already have the top 4 when I tense just the rest is flabby from all the beer I drink, is it possible for me to get a 6 pack in 8 weeks, and if so can anyone help me with a diet, i got a bet that I can do it lol. Even if it isn't possible I'm still going to try for it
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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5'9 - 170lbs

don't have a clue about BF%
 

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Well, if the top 4 are already visible. It doesnt sound like you have too far to go.

If you can drop about 10lbs of fat (which is very realistic) in 8 weeks, you 'should' be there.
 
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