"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Possible to be too funny?

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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jophil28

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Keep doing it -chics love funny guys .
 

Freddy1

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See wheres shes at. Theres a time and place for joking. If you joke too much but she isnt finding out who you are as a person, sooner or later your going to piss her off.

Dont forget your not a circus monkey. You dont want to end up in the LJBF zone.

Theres time you have to get alittle serious to find out what your values are. Who you are as a person and whether your a confident and stable person, your likes and dislikes etc. If you dont bad things happen.
 

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It's a great question, and you have to remember to touch the girls and build good kino, and always remember to escalate your relationship as you enjoy making the girls laugh. If you are having a good time, and building attraction, having her laugh and bond with you emotionally is not going to be a bad thing.
One really good side effect of her enjoying herself is the MASSIVE validation she is giving you with her demonstration of your social value (you are an incredibly fun guy, see?).
Keep it up, and do more with it! :D
 
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