"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Possible to be too funny?

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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jophil28

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Keep doing it -chics love funny guys .
 

Freddy1

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See wheres shes at. Theres a time and place for joking. If you joke too much but she isnt finding out who you are as a person, sooner or later your going to piss her off.

Dont forget your not a circus monkey. You dont want to end up in the LJBF zone.

Theres time you have to get alittle serious to find out what your values are. Who you are as a person and whether your a confident and stable person, your likes and dislikes etc. If you dont bad things happen.
 

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It's a great question, and you have to remember to touch the girls and build good kino, and always remember to escalate your relationship as you enjoy making the girls laugh. If you are having a good time, and building attraction, having her laugh and bond with you emotionally is not going to be a bad thing.
One really good side effect of her enjoying herself is the MASSIVE validation she is giving you with her demonstration of your social value (you are an incredibly fun guy, see?).
Keep it up, and do more with it! :D
 
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