"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Possible slogan : )

K2000kidd

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........DJDF.........
I used to be the guy she cheated on

Now, I'm the guy she's cheating with
 
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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K2000kidd said:
........DJDF.........
You're the guy she cheated on

I'm the guy she cheated with


T-shirts anyone??
I'd take it if its for free.

Sounds a little childish and try hard.
 

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You'll love the slogan until the opposite ends up happening to you. Plus, it kind of negates the purpose of our community and similar expressions have been done to death in the past.
 

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tsmith2334 said:
You'll love the slogan until the opposite ends up happening to you.
Plus, it kind of negates the purpose of our community
I view women very differently now.

1. My current mindset keeps her from WANTING to cheat
2. If she were to cheat (baby daddy, gold digging) it would kill my interest in her anyway
3. I'm done crying over women

LOL i'd never wear it
it does kinda scream "Look at me I'm an arrogant @sshole"

I made a few changes becase I was hardly implying DJs are out to hook up with peoples girlfriends
basically i was expressing the change that occurs when adopting a DJ mentality
We mostly used to be guys that were supplicating/AFC and got cheated on/dumped then we
all came here with a story to tell, asked for advice and eventually became
the guys that the girlfriends ONS/leave their AFC/supplicating boyfriends for.
 
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