"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Possible slogan : )

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K2000kidd

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........DJDF.........
I used to be the guy she cheated on

Now, I'm the guy she's cheating with
 
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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K2000kidd said:
........DJDF.........
You're the guy she cheated on

I'm the guy she cheated with


T-shirts anyone??
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I'd take it if its for free.

Sounds a little childish and try hard.
 
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You'll love the slogan until the opposite ends up happening to you. Plus, it kind of negates the purpose of our community and similar expressions have been done to death in the past.
 
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tsmith2334 said:
You'll love the slogan until the opposite ends up happening to you.
Plus, it kind of negates the purpose of our community
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I view women very differently now.

1. My current mindset keeps her from WANTING to cheat
2. If she were to cheat (baby daddy, gold digging) it would kill my interest in her anyway
3. I'm done crying over women

LOL i'd never wear it
it does kinda scream "Look at me I'm an arrogant @sshole"

I made a few changes becase I was hardly implying DJs are out to hook up with peoples girlfriends
basically i was expressing the change that occurs when adopting a DJ mentality
We mostly used to be guys that were supplicating/AFC and got cheated on/dumped then we
all came here with a story to tell, asked for advice and eventually became
the guys that the girlfriends ONS/leave their AFC/supplicating boyfriends for.
 
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