"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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georgie24

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This new prospect im currently " dating" is very very affectionate, she wants to hold hands in public and kiss in public, i told her i dont do PDA at all since she started with it.

I have a feeling she feels rejected when i push her off me or dont lean in to kiss her in public

is it me or do i see the possibility of a relationship foiled already?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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zekko

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I don't understand what your objection to public displays of affection is. Girls love it.
Surely you don't care what other people might be thinking about you?
 

disgustipated

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Isn't pda a preference thing? I don't care how hot a girl is, I absolutely loathe holding hands for more than say 10 seconds or so. And I could.care less what people think because I don't mind kissing in public, within reason...I can get erect from kissing so I have to be careful.
 

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my wife is real touchy/freely like that. not so much with just the kissing but holding hands, rubbing and stuff all the time. it's just how some people are.

the way i see it, it's like a cat who takes a piss on a tree, it's how women mark their territory.
 

georgie24

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backbreaker said:
the way i see it, it's like a cat who takes a piss on a tree, it's how women mark their territory.
bingo!

girls i just date/phuck i cant stand that sh*t, even when driving shes massaging my neck n shoulders.... its starting to get to point that its a deal breaker for me

if its a girl im in a LTR then i dont care
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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