"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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This new prospect im currently " dating" is very very affectionate, she wants to hold hands in public and kiss in public, i told her i dont do PDA at all since she started with it.

I have a feeling she feels rejected when i push her off me or dont lean in to kiss her in public

is it me or do i see the possibility of a relationship foiled already?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I don't understand what your objection to public displays of affection is. Girls love it.
Surely you don't care what other people might be thinking about you?
 
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Isn't pda a preference thing? I don't care how hot a girl is, I absolutely loathe holding hands for more than say 10 seconds or so. And I could.care less what people think because I don't mind kissing in public, within reason...I can get erect from kissing so I have to be careful.
 
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my wife is real touchy/freely like that. not so much with just the kissing but holding hands, rubbing and stuff all the time. it's just how some people are.

the way i see it, it's like a cat who takes a piss on a tree, it's how women mark their territory.
 
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backbreaker said:
the way i see it, it's like a cat who takes a piss on a tree, it's how women mark their territory.
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bingo!

girls i just date/phuck i cant stand that sh*t, even when driving shes massaging my neck n shoulders.... its starting to get to point that its a deal breaker for me

if its a girl im in a LTR then i dont care
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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