"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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georgie24

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This new prospect im currently " dating" is very very affectionate, she wants to hold hands in public and kiss in public, i told her i dont do PDA at all since she started with it.

I have a feeling she feels rejected when i push her off me or dont lean in to kiss her in public

is it me or do i see the possibility of a relationship foiled already?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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zekko

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I don't understand what your objection to public displays of affection is. Girls love it.
Surely you don't care what other people might be thinking about you?
 

disgustipated

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Isn't pda a preference thing? I don't care how hot a girl is, I absolutely loathe holding hands for more than say 10 seconds or so. And I could.care less what people think because I don't mind kissing in public, within reason...I can get erect from kissing so I have to be careful.
 

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my wife is real touchy/freely like that. not so much with just the kissing but holding hands, rubbing and stuff all the time. it's just how some people are.

the way i see it, it's like a cat who takes a piss on a tree, it's how women mark their territory.
 

georgie24

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backbreaker said:
the way i see it, it's like a cat who takes a piss on a tree, it's how women mark their territory.
bingo!

girls i just date/phuck i cant stand that sh*t, even when driving shes massaging my neck n shoulders.... its starting to get to point that its a deal breaker for me

if its a girl im in a LTR then i dont care
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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