"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Possible reasons for a girl not having sex, but doing everything else.

Ease

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So far i have:

Long distance boyfriend.
STD/disease

What do you think?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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horaholic

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A skewed sense of morals. IE: thinking that going all the way would make them a slut, but its okay to give three hundred dudes BJ's.
 

SoldMySoul

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A fvcked up sense of morals is exactly what it is!!! I have heard of the ones that will not have vaginal intercourse, but anal instead... Give me a big fvcking break!!!!!! If I am sticking my rod in your rear, I am going to put it in the pink too.

I mean what is viewed as more of a freak, anal or vaginal? ANAL wins by a long shot shot!!!

As Horaholic eluded to about the 300 BJs. This played out on the movie Clerks that I posted a month or so ago. The guys girl thought there was nothing wrong with going down on a bunch of guys as compared to how many he had slept with.

When we are young, we would accept these skewed morals, but as we age we want all or nothing.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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