"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Possible Marriage reform?

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I see a lot of men opting out of marriage today because they’ve been screwed before by divorce court or they’ve seen others get screwed by divorce court. Conservatives like Ben shapiro and Matt walsh say the west needs the Christian nuclear family (man, woman, child), and I agree. But they don’t connect the dots to WHY men don’t want to remarry/ get married. If they pass some kind of marriage reform laws in the future, what exactly do you think they should include to protect men’s interests? I’m also asking because I’m unsure if I want to get married one day, gotta weigh all options especially if the government’s involved.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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If women want equality, I say give them real equality, not this double standard crap. But I don't see anything happening in my lifetime.
 

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If women want equality, I say give them real equality, not this double standard crap. But I don't see anything happening in my lifetime.
Marriage law is extremely outdated and heavily biased against men. It's as if women don't work still so they get all these payments from the man.

I think unless you are a Muslim man and it's religious 1. You leave her legal residency at her parents place and 3. Willing to go SCORCHED EARTH should she get divorce rape. Tate described burning everything.
I'm really starting to think islamic women are the only viable options left for western men. Looks like all we gotta do is give up pork for a traditional minded woman to marry.

Sadly Devout Christian women under 50 are virtually non existent these days so I've given up on that. We just have these new age "christians" who pick and choose what to follow and refusw to submit to their husbands.
 

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Marriage law is extremely outdated and heavily biased against men. It's as if women don't work still so they get all these payments from the man.



I'm really starting to think islamic women are the only viable options left for western men. Looks like all we gotta do is give up pork for a traditional minded woman to marry.

Sadly Devout Christian women under 50 are virtually non existent these days so I've given up on that. We just have these new age "christians" who pick and choose what to follow and refusw to submit to their husbands.
All females can be sluts; doesn't matter the ethnicity or religion. A dude just needs to catch them on the right day and time. As for feminism changing any time soon? Doubt it. It's spreading like wildfire. The world would have to experience another major war that drafts people into combat in order to start the process of getting back to traditional values. Even then, the current generations have all experienced the freedom of choice and feminism; why would they want to go back? Females have more degrees, more debt, and in many cases earn more than dudes. Many dudes today are lazy, have no drive, jerk off to porn all day, play video games and cannot talk to females in real life. The world it turning feminist; including the upcoming generation. We are living in a real life minority report and will soon be in a real life Demolition Man. Who knew Hollywood knew the future..

Nothing is changing anytime soon. If you want to have kids, fine, just don't marry them. If you want to live with them, fine, just sign a cohabitation agreement. If it doesn't work, it doesn't work; at least you will not be beholden to the family court systems of the west. At worse, you lose some child support and have to deal with two households. At best, you help raise the next generation.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Sure the West needs a nuclear family. Take away women’s rights to divorce, vote, work outside the home, or cheat without harsh penalties. The man should be able to get sex on demand and the woman should have at least 2 children. The man should also have a young mistress. And his wife has to be a virgin.

Do you think corporate America will allow that?
 

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It all starts at the top as they say. Ever since women have gotten into leadership positions, it's going to be very hard to reverse or change anything as long as we allow women to be leaders. Nothing ever good came about from a woman leader. They've had all these years and what have they achieved so far? Social Justice and further brainwashing? LOL
 

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Sure the West needs a nuclear family. Take away women’s rights to divorce, vote, work outside the home, or cheat without harsh penalties. The man should be able to get sex on demand and the woman should have at least 2 children. The man should also have a young mistress. And his wife has to be a virgin.

Do you think corporate America will allow that?
Do you think anyone would allow or want that? You're pretty much describing how things work in afghanistan.

Except that there will be no young mistresses because men won't let their daughters out of the house until they get married so they don't lose their virginity. The only way men get sex on demand in afghanistan is by buggering young boys or goats, wives are strictly for procreation.
 

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My ex wife was a virgin when we started..... she was 15... gave it up to me at 16... i was 17.... stayed together had 2 kids til 41.... left me for some guy she met in an online mobile game... and im 43 now with a new gf and living with my 2 kids..... so... a wife being a virgin means nothing. If anything it makes her wonder what she missed out on.

Fact.

Edit to say we were both christians too.... so that means nothin either.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Sure the West needs a nuclear family. Take away women’s rights to divorce, vote, work outside the home, or cheat without harsh penalties. The man should be able to get sex on demand and the woman should have at least 2 children. The man should also have a young mistress. And his wife has to be a virgin.

Do you think corporate America will allow that?
No they’d never. It’s crazy that speaking from a redpill perspective will probably get you fired, but posting the craziest feminist crap on the internet won’t endanger a person’s job whatsoever.
 

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If women want equality, I say give them real equality, not this double standard crap. But I don't see anything happening in my lifetime.
If it's a zombie apocalypse irl I won't save any. Better chance of becoming my warbride or human shield. Srs

 

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No they’d never. It’s crazy that speaking from a redpill perspective will probably get you fired, but posting the craziest feminist crap on the internet won’t endanger a person’s job whatsoever.
It's not crazy, it's ideological fascism. And it's just as moronic as going full Sharia.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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It's not crazy, it's ideological fascism. And it's just as moronic as going full Sharia.
Sharia is awesome. Have you seen women drive? my buddy got hit driving by a middle age Asian woman sitting in a booster seat. I am still laughing.
 

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Sharia is awesome. Have you seen women drive? my buddy got hit driving by a middle age Asian woman sitting in a booster seat. I am still laughing.
Yeah Sharia is awesome. Haven't you seen how great life is in Somalia?

Replacing one extremist ideology with another just leads to a different kind of hell.
 

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My ex wife was a virgin when we started..... she was 15... gave it up to me at 16... i was 17.... stayed together had 2 kids til 41.... left me for some guy she met in an online mobile game... and im 43 now with a new gf and living with my 2 kids..... so... a wife being a virgin means nothing. If anything it makes her wonder what she missed out on.

Fact.

Edit to say we were both christians too.... so that means nothin either.
Clearly she was just a lukewarm Christian if she would leave her husband for a guy she met on a "mobile game"
 

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Matrimonial law is the last remaining vestige of medieval times that still exists today. Everything else - serfdom, indentured servitude, fealty, manorial privileges, etc. - has been phased out. The sole remaining feudal custom is the one that disproportionately benefits women, and so it lives on, notwithstanding the fact that our society is supposedly "sexist" and "patriarchal".
 

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Do you think anyone would allow or want that? You're pretty much describing how things work in afghanistan.

Except that there will be no young mistresses because men won't let their daughters out of the house until they get married so they don't lose their virginity. The only way men get sex on demand in afghanistan is by buggering young boys or goats, wives are strictly for procreation.
In the West, the wife “owns” the man under the law. But the husband doesn’t “own” her body.

In the West, no matter how powerful the man is, the wife can DESTROY him if she wants a divorce. The man can’t destroy the wife, society wouldn’t believe it.

In the West, the woman’s life and body is very important. It SELLS for corporate America. The man‘s life and body is worthless and meaningless.

Im all for feminism. Just not at the cause of my mental health.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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