"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Possible Lay, Need a Location

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Alright so long story short, there is a girl that I can chill with tomorrow that would be a likely lay. Problem is that I can't find a location for us to hang out where we could be alone and do our thing.

My house isn't an option because it's messy and my parents are around most of the time.

Her house isn't an option because she has family over for Thanksgiving.

And my car isn't an option because I'm uninsured and need my parents to be present to go anywhere.

So where should I go with this chick?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I don't have much experience with this, but I would say your best bet is still your car. As long as the car's not in the garage, you should be fine. Risky, but an option. :rolleyes:
 

I'm in the Mood

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Woods. Find an isolated spot out in the middle of nowhere with plenty of cover if you want to greatly reduce your chances of being seen. You could make it an activity too and take her for a walk in the woods.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I'm in the Mood said:
Woods. Find an isolated spot out in the middle of nowhere with plenty of cover if you want to greatly reduce your chances of being seen. You could make it an activity too and take her for a walk in the woods.
I almost like this idea. If it weren't for the fact that it's been raining really heavily I would probably go for that.
 
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