Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Possible Lay, Need a Location

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Alright so long story short, there is a girl that I can chill with tomorrow that would be a likely lay. Problem is that I can't find a location for us to hang out where we could be alone and do our thing.

My house isn't an option because it's messy and my parents are around most of the time.

Her house isn't an option because she has family over for Thanksgiving.

And my car isn't an option because I'm uninsured and need my parents to be present to go anywhere.

So where should I go with this chick?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I don't have much experience with this, but I would say your best bet is still your car. As long as the car's not in the garage, you should be fine. Risky, but an option. :rolleyes:
 

I'm in the Mood

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Woods. Find an isolated spot out in the middle of nowhere with plenty of cover if you want to greatly reduce your chances of being seen. You could make it an activity too and take her for a walk in the woods.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I'm in the Mood said:
Woods. Find an isolated spot out in the middle of nowhere with plenty of cover if you want to greatly reduce your chances of being seen. You could make it an activity too and take her for a walk in the woods.
I almost like this idea. If it weren't for the fact that it's been raining really heavily I would probably go for that.
 
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