Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Possible $hit test? Come See.

DonMEgaHoss

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This chick at work hb8 and I have been vibin' alot & kino and other IOI's.
Just being boyish, I guess I flicked a french fry at her not at her face or upper body or nothing.. and She's like " Wah Wah Wah that was hot we're not friends anymore blah blah blah not talking to you ....your a loser... " :rolleyes:


And the thing is I sort of let it be know in a pretty obviously, but not bluntly my interest in her. So Im figuring a $hit test so I said. " Okay yeah Im a loser ya da yadae fine with me."


:cool: Screw her figuratively and literally if she lets some small trifling thing come between us. Im not gonna talk to her unless I have to at work. Until she breaks or she doesnt and find out she really wasnt that interested in me.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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DonMEgaHoss

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No replies what a shame.
 

sexy_kuta

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bust a ****y and funny with her

act like that didnt happen and talk to her. i would treat her with a little more respect
 

aix237

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shes probalby all sensitive which = a lot of arguments if you get into ltr
 

Road Demon

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Good save with the "I'm a loser comment." It was not the smoothest move to hit her with a hot fry, so I agree try not to do that again.

Ignore it. When you see her next, act like nothing happened. Contininue with the kino and such.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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DonMEgaHoss

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wasnt that hot she's just a cry baby lol.... Cant handle the heat stay out of the kitchen!
 
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