"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Possible $hit test? Come See.

DonMEgaHoss

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This chick at work hb8 and I have been vibin' alot & kino and other IOI's.
Just being boyish, I guess I flicked a french fry at her not at her face or upper body or nothing.. and She's like " Wah Wah Wah that was hot we're not friends anymore blah blah blah not talking to you ....your a loser... " :rolleyes:


And the thing is I sort of let it be know in a pretty obviously, but not bluntly my interest in her. So Im figuring a $hit test so I said. " Okay yeah Im a loser ya da yadae fine with me."


:cool: Screw her figuratively and literally if she lets some small trifling thing come between us. Im not gonna talk to her unless I have to at work. Until she breaks or she doesnt and find out she really wasnt that interested in me.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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DonMEgaHoss

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No replies what a shame.
 

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bust a ****y and funny with her

act like that didnt happen and talk to her. i would treat her with a little more respect
 

aix237

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shes probalby all sensitive which = a lot of arguments if you get into ltr
 

Road Demon

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Good save with the "I'm a loser comment." It was not the smoothest move to hit her with a hot fry, so I agree try not to do that again.

Ignore it. When you see her next, act like nothing happened. Contininue with the kino and such.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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DonMEgaHoss

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wasnt that hot she's just a cry baby lol.... Cant handle the heat stay out of the kitchen!
 
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