"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Possible $hit test? Come See.

DonMEgaHoss

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This chick at work hb8 and I have been vibin' alot & kino and other IOI's.
Just being boyish, I guess I flicked a french fry at her not at her face or upper body or nothing.. and She's like " Wah Wah Wah that was hot we're not friends anymore blah blah blah not talking to you ....your a loser... " :rolleyes:


And the thing is I sort of let it be know in a pretty obviously, but not bluntly my interest in her. So Im figuring a $hit test so I said. " Okay yeah Im a loser ya da yadae fine with me."


:cool: Screw her figuratively and literally if she lets some small trifling thing come between us. Im not gonna talk to her unless I have to at work. Until she breaks or she doesnt and find out she really wasnt that interested in me.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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DonMEgaHoss

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No replies what a shame.
 

sexy_kuta

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bust a ****y and funny with her

act like that didnt happen and talk to her. i would treat her with a little more respect
 

aix237

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shes probalby all sensitive which = a lot of arguments if you get into ltr
 

Road Demon

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Good save with the "I'm a loser comment." It was not the smoothest move to hit her with a hot fry, so I agree try not to do that again.

Ignore it. When you see her next, act like nothing happened. Contininue with the kino and such.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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wasnt that hot she's just a cry baby lol.... Cant handle the heat stay out of the kitchen!
 
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