"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Possible cure for Multiple Sclerosis

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http://news.yahoo.com/s/ap/20100322/ap_on_he_me/us_med_healthbeat_ms___bad_veins_1

I have Multiple Sclerosis, and I am praying that this is the answer, I can see my quality of life fading as every week passes. Fortunately here in Melbourne, Australia, they are already offering the scans and treatment, we seem to be a bit more open minded than the U.S.

I did have the ultrasound on my neck a few weeks ago, and there is more than 50% stenosis, my consultation with the interventional radiologist is in May. If you know anyone with MS, I urge you to direct them to the This Is MS forum: http://www.thisisms.com/forum-40.html
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Ah, I'm very sorry to hear Mike.

This is a horrible condition, I've seen a friend suffer with it and I too was suspected of having it after some extremelly odd symptoms over the past couple years. But my MRI came up all clear and was let go by the neurologist.

22 is a very young age to be diagnised with MS Mike! And you say you can see your quality of life fading with every passing wk? It's not generally that aggressive is it? I thought the vast majority had periods of relapsing-remitting?

I am actually going to do some volunteer work for the MS society of Australia (I am in Sydney). It is a disease I really believe in helping.
 

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Gaucho said:
Ah, I'm very sorry to hear Mike.

This is a horrible condition, I've seen a friend suffer with it and I too was suspected of having it after some extremelly odd symptoms over the past couple years. But my MRI came up all clear and was let go by the neurologist.

22 is a very young age to be diagnised with MS Mike! And you say you can see your quality of life fading with every passing wk? It's not generally that aggressive is it? I thought the vast majority had periods of relapsing-remitting?

I am actually going to do some volunteer work for the MS society of Australia (I am in Sydney). It is a disease I really believe in helping.
Good for you that you were cleared, I wouldn't wish this sh1t on even my most hated enemy.

The problem with MS is that it is so unpredictable. Some people are Relapsing-Remitting for 20 odd years or so (I think about 50% of MS sufferers begin as RR), then some people have their first attack, and the disease rapidly progresses (Secondary/Primary Progressive). Looking back, I've probably had it since I was about 18-19. Seemingly out of nowhere, I was always fatigued, my mental ability was slowing down: trouble concentrating (known as "brain fog"), trouble thinking of words to say & spelling them, solving simple mathematical problems. Not to sound arrogant, but before any of those symptoms I was very very sharp, massive vocabulary, always full of energy, intelligent, and had a ridiculous amount of potential. I also started having trouble talking to women and people in general, whereas before I could start a conversation and talk to anyone.

For those couple of years I didn't know wtf was happening, I put it down to being tired as I was working 6 days a week in a physically demanding job from 7am till 5pm, training 6 days a week, and going out on weekends. Then in August last year I had my first attack where everything from my waist down went numb, couldn't walk, could barely move & control my legs and I was in extreme pain. Luckily I am at least able to walk now, but I can't go back to work or train or do anything I was able to do 6 months ago. With things going the way they are, the 11th of May can't be here any sooner. Just to list some of my symptoms: Random blurry vision, random pain/numbness/tingling throughout my whole body, the cognitive fog is always with me (brain fog), fatigue kills me: if I go for a 20 minute walk, I have to sleep for 2 hours to recover from it, constant migraines (how happy would you be if you woke up nearly every morning with a migraine?). I'm not after pity, I just want people to become aware.

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Best of luck man.. stay strong.
Thanks backbreaker, I hope I get through this.
 

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Yeh, my symptoms came on suddenly. I had tingling all down my body, brain fog, muscle spasms and twitching, extreme fatigue where I felt like a wilting flower and just ready to flop down anywhere and sleep for days, couldn't control my thoughts, and at one time felt like I coudn't swallow.

It clears up for the most part, but then every 5-6 months I get another relapse, however this generally coincides with a stressful period of my life. I went for a few visits to the neurologist and had an MRI as well as nerve conduction tests, and blood tests. Symptoms are still there, but he couldn't diagnose me.

Went to a doctor as I still have symptoms and he thinks I had GAD, generalised anxiety disorder where my brain pumps too much adrenaline into my body and similar symptoms have arisen from this constant overdose of the adrenal glands. The medication he gave me barely helps though, so I try to live healthily and just hope I don't get worse (and so far so good luckily for me, it seems to have stabilized for now). It has been 1 and a 1 /2 years since my first attack.

The symptoms were/are so frightening which is what has motivated me, once I hopefully become symptom free, to try help others with the same symptoms.

How were you diagnosed eventually? Via MRI on the cervical spine + brain?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I don't want to be a downer, but all this story seems to be is hyped hope to draw readers.

I have a very close family member who has had MS for 20+ years, and has gone through experiment after experiment with the new drugs and procedures, with no avail. Each of the new tests she has been in had shown some sign of positivity such as this article shows.

I also have a very close friend who is a molecular biologist doing MS research, and she says they are not close to a cure. She's still working with rats.
 

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Effington, anything is possible.

The thing with this study from what I have seen, is it has a direct correlation with MS patients, far greater than any other seen to date.

Not only that, but it could explain the reason for the autoimmune response I believe, something only ever hypothesised before with no evidence (even on such a small study sample) as strong as this........

That is my understanding from the readings I have done on it.
 

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I watched my mom die slowly over a 15 year period from MS. She was hospitalized and completely unable to move for 10 years. She would be me often to go out on the street and buy heroin to od her with. We actually had doctors approval to od her on morphine at one point. When I went there to kill her, neither her or I could go through with it. She just had to suffer horribly until the last day. She was on hundreds of milligrams of morphine that barely helped the pain. I'll never be able to get the images out of my head of her withering away in the hospital.

I hope for you they really find a cure soon.
 

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Effington said:
I don't want to be a downer, but all this story seems to be is hyped hope to draw readers.

I have a very close family member who has had MS for 20+ years, and has gone through experiment after experiment with the new drugs and procedures, with no avail. Each of the new tests she has been in had shown some sign of positivity such as this article shows.

I also have a very close friend who is a molecular biologist doing MS research, and she says they are not close to a cure. She's still working with rats.
I understand your criticism, all news stories are spun to appeal to readers and for the theory to sound "believable". One thing that can't be spun is the results people are getting. I read the ThisIsMS forum daily, and people are improving as time passes. Relapsing-Remitting are showing the most improvements, while Secondary & Primary Progressive aren't showing dramatic improvments right away, but they are not getting any worse (some people may have permanent damage, but as stated by most people, they are happy for progression to just stop). The only people who have gotten worse or had a relapse, are those whose veins became narrowed again. I also speak personally to 2 people here in Melbourne that have had the procedure, and they have not felt better in years.

Drugs are not the answer. They do nothing to stop the disease, there is only a chance that they may slow progression. Coupled with the fact that people have to pay up to $2000 per month for something that "may" work AND the side-effects that many of them come with : Tysabri and PML related deaths - http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Progressive_multifocal_leukoencephalopathy

I have no faith in the disease-modifying drugs, I would rather be dead.

Also something to note, neurologists, Multiple Sclerosis Societies and the Big Pharma companies are scoffing at this theory and discouraging people against it. Some people think this is because all autoimmune theory research done over the years has been a waste of time, some think that if a cure is found, Big Pharma will lose a sh1tload of money and MS Societies will not be needed any longer ie. people will be out of a job. It's only speculation at this point though.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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All good points.

Eager to see your results and I hope for the best for you mate!
 
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