"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Possible chance to get with a milf

El Don

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So I went to get my haircut today and there was this milf there that cut my hair maybe 2 or 3 months ago. Anyway the last time she cut my hair she was talking about how hot the way I had my beard trimmed and edged up. She was almost at a loss for words and looked like she was going to orgasm right there lol.

I went in again and she recognized me and as she trimmed around my beard she said it was sexy. We started some small talk and I mentioned I worked at this shoe store next door. She mentioned some boots or some crap she wanted and I told her she could come by and maybe I could see what I could do about hooking her up.

She finished cutting my hair and as I was paying she asked how she would know if I was working. I told her my schedule that I usually work nights during the week and during the day on weekends. Right after that she said here and wrote her number on one of her cards and told me to call her. Now I didn't give it much thought at first since I figured she just wanted a discount but I did tell her what my usual schedule is and I didn't really see a need for her to give me her number.

Am I just reading too much into this? With the compliments she gave me before and giving me her number and everything do you think I have a chance to hook up with her? I was thinking maybe if I hooked her up at my job I would be able to ask her out to try and hook up with her. Do you think I am just being used? man she is hot.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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I'm RAFC right now, but it sounds like she wants to ****. My hairdresser keeps telling me how nice my eyebrows are and when she leans in close, I'll sometimes slightly rub her leg. She just smiles and loves it. She totally wants the dingus. Your girl sounds like she is the same. No need to give you her number for a discount if you are right next door. Maybe you can call her and jokingly tell her how she should fix your hair because she screwed it up or something and tell her you'll make her dinner in exchange...???

again I'm just RAFC but it's an idea....?
 

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She called you sexy, practically asked when you were free, then handed you her phone number.

NAH, she's not interested in you at all! Next!
 

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yuppaz said:
I'm RAFC right now, but it sounds like she wants to ****. My hairdresser keeps telling me how nice my eyebrows are and when she leans in close, I'll sometimes slightly rub her leg. She just smiles and loves it. She totally wants the dingus. Your girl sounds like she is the same. No need to give you her number for a discount if you are right next door. Maybe you can call her and jokingly tell her how she should fix your hair because she screwed it up or something and tell her you'll make her dinner in exchange...???

again I'm just RAFC but it's an idea....?

ROFL @ the word "dingus"

****t sounds like some harry potter slang

:crackup: :crackup:
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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wjh said:
She called you sexy, practically asked when you were free, then handed you her phone number.

NAH, she's not interested in you at all! Next!
lol yea I know I guess I couldn't believe it. Only thing is where do I ask her out to? You don't normally go out with someone whos a lot older than you to places you go with people your age.
 
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