"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Possible baby, now big baby momma drama

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Ok, so I just recently(12 days ago) got dumped by what I originally thought was a real love. Now less than a week later, I have been informed I may be a babies daddy. I am beyond lost.
 

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You get a curve ball and strike out, even though you were sure you got solid contact. (Ex who dumped you) You deal with it. Then you are told about a change up you apparently missed and you are blind sided.(girl from last year) All this while you are trying so hard to advance your life. How do you move on?! What do you do? You are more than ok with the change up and have wanted the change up since you were in your 20's, but not like this, not how this pitcher is treating you, they act and respond like you are nothing now when you know full well you are beyond normal and actually special compared to most
 
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You got dumped!

Even if it is your baby you don't want anything to do with it because of mother is trash. It's ok though, you'll make another baby. So I suggest you get lost. Change your number, change your city, close fb.
 
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There's a pretty high chance she's messing with you. Regardless, ask for a dna test proving that you are indeed the father. Do not sign paternity papers that say you accept being the father, because a dna test will not counter that then.
 
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DNA test for the win.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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DNA test for the win.
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ha its the only sure way to know. She said you "may" be the father aka shes been wh0ring around and she obviously doesnt know whose it is. Or shes using it as a tactic to get her ego backk
 
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Yes, she admitted she slept with another guy the same week as we did(last summer) and he has been the father. Now, she says she thinks it looks like me. I bought an Identigene yesterday and I'm going to her place tomorrow to take the swabs.
This is not the girl who dumped me BTW.
 
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Leave it bro. No contact. When she initiates contact, tell her you want a DNA test. If it's yours, you make her deal with it. If she wants child support, make her go to court for it. If she dumped you she already doesn't respect you. If a baby can make you jump thru her hoops she owns you. I say this as a man with a child. My ex tries to play games with my daughter. I ignore everything but what I want. Why? because she only respects me when I don't kiss her ass. When I was nice I never got anything I wanted. Listen or otherwise she's just gonna use the baby to jerk your chain repeatedly.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Warrior74 said:
Leave it bro. No contact. When she initiates contact, tell her you want a DNA test. If it's yours, you make her deal with it. If she wants child support, make her go to court for it. If she dumped you she already doesn't respect you. If a baby can make you jump thru her hoops she owns you. I say this as a man with a child. My ex tries to play games with my daughter. I ignore everything but what I want. Why? because she only respects me when I don't kiss her ass. When I was nice I never got anything I wanted. Listen or otherwise she's just gonna use the baby to jerk your chain repeatedly.
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This is 'not' the ex-girlfriend saying I might be the father. This is a one night stand I had last summer with another girl before I met the recent ex-girlfriend.
 
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The same rules apply. What's fun is fun and what's done is done. Not a dime until a DNA test. No contact otherwise.
 
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Warrior74 said:
The same rules apply. What's fun is fun and what's done is done. Not a dime until a DNA test. No contact otherwise.
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She has already asked for me to take a DNA test. She wants to do it tomorrow. She doesn't want a relationship which is cool. I just didn't want a kid this way. I've wanted to have one for a while though, but not from just some random girl.
 
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