"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Possibilties of Interest

defiancy

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Hmm I think it is possible for a girl to basically "ignore" u although she is interested in you..(maybe she's hiding it really well) you think so because I think I got her interested, because in my alg 2 -H class ..i caught her looking at me at the corner of my eye and what feels like couple of other times

What do u think...just wondering...I will make my move soon hehe:D

Hmm more signs: "She sits right next to me"

she leaned in (im sure she's interested)
Talks to guys across the room (hmm)
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Fatality

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Make a move now before some other guy snatches her up.
 

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do what fatality said!

i think she might be trying to test ya by making you jealous or annoyed at her antics of ignoring you or talking to guys across the room.

all little annoying things to see if you can handle them...

go for it now!
 

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Unless you are sure that the chick hates your guts because you abused her or something similar (and in this case the girl usually makes it known to you that you've upset them, either directly or through friends) and still you do nothing or don't catch on then they ignore you.

Otherwise, decent human chicks don't really ignore guys. Its pretty rude really. LOL. So if a girl ever ignores me (ignoring being its clearly obvious in her intent and she simply didn't happen to notice you there) then its highly likely something is going on. Whether she's into you or at least thinking about something about you or even one of her friends is really digging you etc.

Ignoring is great on occassion... especially when you get to that girl who has been ignoring you and strike up a big conversation like you've both been best mates forever and all the time you have a big grin on your face as though nothing has ever happened in the past.

If she's ignoring you. Then it was time to act ages ago. Waste no more time and go get her!

f.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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defiancy

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Hmm..especially since she sits right in front of me (I'll show you the seat layout in the class)

Her Other

Other Me <---this is the seat layout
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Well i'm guessing girls are too shy or maybe they don't want other people notciing
(I'm telling you more signs
Other signs:

when she talks to others she doesn't usually smile, she smiles when I talk to her

She leans to the right side when the teacher ( remember seating chart) gives us notes and she leans really close to me

Continues to ignore me most of the time <BAh>

Then again, I'm not sure she wants me that badly but I'll take care of that real nicely hehe
 

defiancy

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Well..any comments?
 
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