"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Positive self talk and affirmations won't get you that far

Suspens

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That's about it. You must feel happy and in control of your life.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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yannick43 said:
And it goes like this beat rap please this is the positive tang ya been waiting for braw.

Ho yeah, all the fat people, ho yea gatta round the table oh yeah...... no my life ain't changen cause i can't stop complaining, women reject me like i get ejected, but that ain't funny, so i come on here with ta attitude and start spraying, all the fat people all the fat people gatta round the table. Ho mommy please help me ta positive thinking ain't working for me, i am gonna finish my life lonely, to scared to call some honey, might as well throw it all away, i am so damn bony, all the fat people, all the fat people gatta round the table.......

Ho yeah, think positive think sophisticated that alright i am a little loser so constipated...... positive thinking ain't where its at where the fvck did i place my hat. My fat friend Jonathan is so fat the other day he wanted to eat my cat... who that fat bytch all around been sucking dix in the ups and down, ho yeah all the fat people, all the fat people gattaround the table, ,,,,, the end.
The reps your receive off your garbage posts is proof positive of the state of so suave. Trolls running the asylum.
 

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Affirmations are useless and empty if you don't apply deep emotions with them.
 

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Dunno man. I find them to help me out sometimes. After all "As you think, you shall become." - Pook.
 
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