stumpy_mcgee
Don Juan
I've started tanning for the summer. I'd just like to hear your guys stories (if any) on how it's improved your look or how more girls notice you because of your tanned look as opposed to looking like caspers a$$.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
positive results for tanning
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
floorman81
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I used to tan, did it my senior year of high school untill 2002. (I graduated in 99) In 2002 I noticed a mole on my face was weird, got it checked out, it was ok...but had one on my leg removed. It turns out it was melanoma. It is the kind of skin cancer that spreads. I was lucky that I caught it early, because once it spreads to your lymph nodes you are kinda screwed.
I say this not to preach, but to inform you to really watch your skin and moles and if anything changes go to a dermatologist. Most likely it will be nothing, but as you can read in my case, it very well could be.
You don't want to be the 20 something year old in the oncology unit with all the elders. It's not fun!
I say this not to preach, but to inform you to really watch your skin and moles and if anything changes go to a dermatologist. Most likely it will be nothing, but as you can read in my case, it very well could be.
You don't want to be the 20 something year old in the oncology unit with all the elders. It's not fun!
stumpy_mcgee
Don Juan
Yeah man, my mom has skin cancer right now too, but she's getting it looked after (never seen a bed in her life, never even tanned either, just from being outside in the summer, overexposed). I know there really is no absolute safe way to tan. I'm pretty white and i'm starting off with only 8 minutes, and i'll never go over 20 (i'll probably never get there anyways). I hear it's better to use the beds to build up a base tan though, rather then get overexposed in the summer and burn like a mofo. I'm not gonna turn into one of those people who tan all the time and turn almost black, I just don't wanna look like...well, casper anymore. Besides of all the risks...I wanna hear about some of the benefits you guys have had...there's gotta be some chicks who've noticed it and complimented you, or found you more attractive because of the tan.
Patrick124
Master Don Juan
I have never -tanned-..but i tan -very- easy. I had a tan form summer until about december of this year, ever girl noticed it, and i got compliments on it...but i don't think i cna say it improved my game at all.
it mgiht ahve only made one girl -more- attracted to me, but thats because my nickname is "caliboy" lol, shes from california and says i look like a surfer..so the tan def helped.
but they don't matter that much. i mgiht tan outside this summer..but never at a salon..
it mgiht ahve only made one girl -more- attracted to me, but thats because my nickname is "caliboy" lol, shes from california and says i look like a surfer..so the tan def helped.
but they don't matter that much. i mgiht tan outside this summer..but never at a salon..
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Yeah I'd say on some people it makes a major difference, and less of one on others.
In the summer, or afer a vacation- when I'm tan, I get much more compliments on my looks than when I havent seen the sun for a while. I'd say it takes me from like an 8.5 to a 9.3
In the summer, or afer a vacation- when I'm tan, I get much more compliments on my looks than when I havent seen the sun for a while. I'd say it takes me from like an 8.5 to a 9.3
Tan is good, but is it worth the price? good tan = WISE tan....
A tan will make most people look more attractive, but if u tan, do it wisely, because having a tan is not worth the price of cancer. If u tan, make sure u don’t do it too much, and use the correct lotions etc that will protect your skin, while giving u a tan. Be careful
Laterz...
A tan will make most people look more attractive, but if u tan, do it wisely, because having a tan is not worth the price of cancer. If u tan, make sure u don’t do it too much, and use the correct lotions etc that will protect your skin, while giving u a tan. Be careful
Laterz...
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Prophett
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Everytime time I think of people tanning and going overboard with it I picture those obnoxious Gotti boys. Not a good look... ha
Ian Gots Game
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Go tanning with girls. I go tanning with girls all the time and its a blast. And dont be embarrassed about it. It is relaxing, gives you better tone, and it actually gets rid of zits.
The.Nice.Guy
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ive got a natural tan and always get compliments from girls so go for it
The Master Disaster
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Not to disregard what your saying, but tanning is sort of over rated. I tanned one year and nothing changed. I didn't tan as much last year and I got more girls (My personality improved). I mean girls don't like paisty but they dont like black. I guess find somewhere imbetween. I wouldn't disregard the bit about skin cancer. You can't be too careful
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