You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
women without makeupWarrior74 said:
If you're doing it right! ;Pbetheman said:women without makeup
I lold at the Jessica Mor commentBurroughs said:from comment:
damn they've got some awesome concealer.... I cant see any of the herpes scabs afterwards.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
and crawling with diseaseVladPatton said:#28 Tori Black...still hot.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
First of all this post will get reaction from the no fap challenge thread, most of the guys will go back to day 1 again.bradd80 said:LMAO :crackup:
You mean, they don't always look like this:
Tori Black
or this:
Anissa Kate
I'm shocked!
Actually, no I'm not.. this is a fact of life when you date pretty girls. They look amazing the night you pick them up in the club, but then the next morning when you wake up after a night of hot crazy secks you can't wait to get them the hell outta the door..
But what does surprise me a little is how brutally ugly these girls all look without any make up.. you can see all their pimples, scabs, red blotches and all sorts of other unidentified skin disorders. #29, Keira King, without her makeup looks like the main character from that 80's movie "Mask." #23, proxy paige looks like a squeegee kid. They all look like 3's and 4's really ugly.