That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
women without makeupWarrior74 said:
If you're doing it right! ;Pbetheman said:women without makeup
I lold at the Jessica Mor commentBurroughs said:from comment:
damn they've got some awesome concealer.... I cant see any of the herpes scabs afterwards.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
and crawling with diseaseVladPatton said:#28 Tori Black...still hot.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
First of all this post will get reaction from the no fap challenge thread, most of the guys will go back to day 1 again.bradd80 said:LMAO :crackup:
You mean, they don't always look like this:
Tori Black
or this:
Anissa Kate
I'm shocked!
Actually, no I'm not.. this is a fact of life when you date pretty girls. They look amazing the night you pick them up in the club, but then the next morning when you wake up after a night of hot crazy secks you can't wait to get them the hell outta the door..
But what does surprise me a little is how brutally ugly these girls all look without any make up.. you can see all their pimples, scabs, red blotches and all sorts of other unidentified skin disorders. #29, Keira King, without her makeup looks like the main character from that 80's movie "Mask." #23, proxy paige looks like a squeegee kid. They all look like 3's and 4's really ugly.