Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Porn and Online dating actually benefit men

Dhoulmagus

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The more alternatives, the less chances we put up with bull **** to obtain *****. It's funny how I haven't gotten more numbers while sitting on my ass playing EU4/Cod then wasting my time at a night club or something.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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The more alternatives, the less chances we put up with bull **** to obtain *****. It's funny how I haven't gotten more numbers while sitting on my ass playing EU4/Cod then wasting my time at a night club or something.
Me too. I have been successful with OLD. Women still sicken me with their hypergamy but I will get over it. Having a little anger phase this morning.
 

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Porn fvcks your brain up, and wanking fvcks your d!ck up. I know because I quit both months ago to heal and that's what happened. OLD is good in theory but largely fails in practice because of marketplace realities.
 

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Porn fvcks your brain up, and wanking fvcks your d!ck up. I know because I quit both months ago to heal and that's what happened. OLD is good in theory but largely fails in practice because of marketplace realities.
wtf is OLD?
 

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No problem with online dating if that's your thing, but porn is not good for you in any way.

I haven't watched porn/fapped in almost 5 weeks now and am better for it. Glad I've gone without it for this long, as your brain isn't wired to jack to porn.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Porn fvcks your brain up, and wanking fvcks your d!ck up. I know because I quit both months ago to heal and that's what happened. OLD is good in theory but largely fails in practice because of marketplace realities.
Nah it is perfectly beneficial lol.
 

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No problem with online dating if that's your thing, but porn is not good for you in any way.

I haven't watched porn/fapped in almost 5 weeks now and am better for it. Glad I've gone without it for this long, as your brain isn't wired to jack to porn.
idk how no fap could ever benefit me?
 

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Man, the only LTR people I know all meet online lol and some got kids
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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No porn and online dating for me ... I hit the streets and game GIRLS ... real girls ... Mind you, they are only 8s and 9s ... and if they were like 10s, i would make my move on them anyway ... This is because I do NOT fear any girls ... Also, NO PMO has given me tons of MOTIVATION, DRIVE, and ENERGY to walk out of the house and approach and socialize with girls ... on a consistent basis ... had I been jacking off, I would never have felt those DRIVE and ENTHUSIASM ...

This new found energy can also be used on creative ventures, such as establishing your own business, finishing up your projects, and doing something new :)
 
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Have to admit.....no fapping would likely take your game and determination to another level. But for me I can't sleep if I don't fap right before bedtime. Used to have bad insomnia. It's really the only reason I do it. Plus it seems like it reduces stress levels.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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geez I really don't want to be known as the king of fap. however just be aware guys that there is solid research saying it's good for prostate health. so if you're in a dry spell make sure the pipe still get cleaned. I'm guessing but I reckon once every couple of weeks would be enough.

now on to a more pleasant topic - OLD. I think the USA must be a really f***** up market. I am definitely nobody special. I'm not rich or good looking or particularly jacked and if I put much effort into OLD I end up with more sloots than I can manage. last week I had to juggle a booty call with a South African princess with seeing the Filipinos and Malaysian chicks that I'd also downloaded and gaming the Chinese nurse that I was really interested in. but she doesn't count because we d met in real.

now of course online dating has a big dark side. it's addictive like all social media so you have to make sure it doesn't take over your life and of course expect lots of annoying and flaky women but I don't see how that is any different from real. I also don't get how its meant to damage your game surely practice is practice.

I set myself a minimum KPI of getting horizontal with 4 chicks in a year if I'm not in a LTR. courtesy of online dating that's just childs play.
 
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Use it, or lose it. I tried the 3 day nofap, frighteningly, I went dormant for days. Even dogs need to go out for a walk regularly. Take care of yourself!
 

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Releasing semen releases me of this insane mindset that I need to do anything and everything I can for p*ssy.

I'm not sure if my testosterone is just insane but if I don't masturbate at least once I day I end up getting distracted trying to bone 6-7s.
 

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Have to admit.....no fapping would likely take your game and determination to another level. But for me I can't sleep if I don't fap right before bedtime. Used to have bad insomnia. It's really the only reason I do it. Plus it seems like it reduces stress levels.
My insomnia is so bad these days I can fap before bedtime and still stay awake. I'll get highly fatigued for a bit, but after a short while I'll just shrug those feelings off and I'm wide awake again. Usually average only between 4-6 hours of sleep these days, and some nights, none.

As for the porn, there was a period where I used to watch a ton of it, but I eventually was able to just instantly shut it off by sheer force of will. It is all just mental when you think you have to have it to get off. It is overcoming that part of your mind that is telling you that you can't. That's all there is.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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