Porn and Online dating actually benefit men

[Dhoulmagus]

The more alternatives, the less chances we put up with bull **** to obtain *****. It's funny how I haven't gotten more numbers while sitting on my ass playing EU4/Cod then wasting my time at a night club or something.

 

[dustmuffin]

The more alternatives, the less chances we put up with bull **** to obtain *****. It's funny how I haven't gotten more numbers while sitting on my ass playing EU4/Cod then wasting my time at a night club or something.

Me too. I have been successful with OLD. Women still sicken me with their hypergamy but I will get over it. Having a little anger phase this morning.

 

[AttackFormation]

Porn fvcks your brain up, and wanking fvcks your d!ck up. I know because I quit both months ago to heal and that's what happened. OLD is good in theory but largely fails in practice because of marketplace realities.

 

[Dhoulmagus]

Porn fvcks your brain up, and wanking fvcks your d!ck up. I know because I quit both months ago to heal and that's what happened. OLD is good in theory but largely fails in practice because of marketplace realities.

wtf is OLD?

 

[Building_and_Loan]

No problem with online dating if that's your thing, but porn is not good for you in any way.

I haven't watched porn/fapped in almost 5 weeks now and am better for it. Glad I've gone without it for this long, as your brain isn't wired to jack to porn.

 

[AttackFormation]

wtf is OLD?

On-Line Dating.

 

[Dhoulmagus]

Porn fvcks your brain up, and wanking fvcks your d!ck up. I know because I quit both months ago to heal and that's what happened. OLD is good in theory but largely fails in practice because of marketplace realities.

Nah it is perfectly beneficial lol.

 

[Dhoulmagus]

No problem with online dating if that's your thing, but porn is not good for you in any way.

I haven't watched porn/fapped in almost 5 weeks now and am better for it. Glad I've gone without it for this long, as your brain isn't wired to jack to porn.

idk how no fap could ever benefit me?

 

[skinnyguy]

If it weren't for porn and masturbation Id be going for 2's and 3's

 

[Von]

Man, the only LTR people I know all meet online lol and some got kids

 

[Bible_Belt]

I've met women off amateur porn sites before. It's great; you can do on-line dating and on-line porn at the same time.

 

[aforabi]

No porn and online dating for me ... I hit the streets and game GIRLS ... real girls ... Mind you, they are only 8s and 9s ... and if they were like 10s, i would make my move on them anyway ... This is because I do NOT fear any girls ... Also, NO PMO has given me tons of MOTIVATION, DRIVE, and ENERGY to walk out of the house and approach and socialize with girls ... on a consistent basis ... had I been jacking off, I would never have felt those DRIVE and ENTHUSIASM ...

This new found energy can also be used on creative ventures, such as establishing your own business, finishing up your projects, and doing something new

 

[zinc4]

Have to admit.....no fapping would likely take your game and determination to another level. But for me I can't sleep if I don't fap right before bedtime. Used to have bad insomnia. It's really the only reason I do it. Plus it seems like it reduces stress levels.

 

[El Payaso]

wtf is OLD?

Online Dating.

 

[Reykhel]

wtf is OLD?

Exactly DJ, exactly....

 

[ubercat]

geez I really don't want to be known as the king of fap. however just be aware guys that there is solid research saying it's good for prostate health. so if you're in a dry spell make sure the pipe still get cleaned. I'm guessing but I reckon once every couple of weeks would be enough.

now on to a more pleasant topic - OLD. I think the USA must be a really f***** up market. I am definitely nobody special. I'm not rich or good looking or particularly jacked and if I put much effort into OLD I end up with more sloots than I can manage. last week I had to juggle a booty call with a South African princess with seeing the Filipinos and Malaysian chicks that I'd also downloaded and gaming the Chinese nurse that I was really interested in. but she doesn't count because we d met in real.

now of course online dating has a big dark side. it's addictive like all social media so you have to make sure it doesn't take over your life and of course expect lots of annoying and flaky women but I don't see how that is any different from real. I also don't get how its meant to damage your game surely practice is practice.

I set myself a minimum KPI of getting horizontal with 4 chicks in a year if I'm not in a LTR. courtesy of online dating that's just childs play.

 

[Amilz]

Porn is desensitizing. It's illusory for the most part.

 

[wifehunter]

Use it, or lose it. I tried the 3 day nofap, frighteningly, I went dormant for days. Even dogs need to go out for a walk regularly. Take care of yourself!

 

[Slash Dolo]

Releasing semen releases me of this insane mindset that I need to do anything and everything I can for p*ssy.

I'm not sure if my testosterone is just insane but if I don't masturbate at least once I day I end up getting distracted trying to bone 6-7s.

 

[Xeon21]

Have to admit.....no fapping would likely take your game and determination to another level. But for me I can't sleep if I don't fap right before bedtime. Used to have bad insomnia. It's really the only reason I do it. Plus it seems like it reduces stress levels.

My insomnia is so bad these days I can fap before bedtime and still stay awake. I'll get highly fatigued for a bit, but after a short while I'll just shrug those feelings off and I'm wide awake again. Usually average only between 4-6 hours of sleep these days, and some nights, none.

As for the porn, there was a period where I used to watch a ton of it, but I eventually was able to just instantly shut it off by sheer force of will. It is all just mental when you think you have to have it to get off. It is overcoming that part of your mind that is telling you that you can't. That's all there is.