"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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How soon or if to text/call a girl after a so so first date that ended in a heavy mskeout session but no pull back to her place or yours...

My buddy is telling I'm crazy for nexting this chick, but I'm only interested in strictly fast dtf girls and feel a second date could be another waste of time and money ending with more bs.

My general rule of thumb is to next immediately, but this one is actually hot do have been giving it some second thoughts here and there.

I'm leaning towards nexting if she doesn't hit me up first.
 
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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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dgaf about being don Juan or alpha, just managing my options and time.

Got two plates who are always dtf but not quite as good looking.

Thinking going clubbing a few nights would net me a better upgraded third plate instead of chasing after this one. Back and forth debate in my head.
 
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