"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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zinc4

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How soon or if to text/call a girl after a so so first date that ended in a heavy mskeout session but no pull back to her place or yours...

My buddy is telling I'm crazy for nexting this chick, but I'm only interested in strictly fast dtf girls and feel a second date could be another waste of time and money ending with more bs.

My general rule of thumb is to next immediately, but this one is actually hot do have been giving it some second thoughts here and there.

I'm leaning towards nexting if she doesn't hit me up first.
 
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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zinc4

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dgaf about being don Juan or alpha, just managing my options and time.

Got two plates who are always dtf but not quite as good looking.

Thinking going clubbing a few nights would net me a better upgraded third plate instead of chasing after this one. Back and forth debate in my head.
 
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