"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Pop out a kid or two and they jet. Is that becoming the standard?

SpeedDemon

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I've known quite a few men that I have a business relationship with where they're going or had been going through a divorce. This seems to had increased over the last year or two in the metro ny area in my professional circles. It seemed to me this happened after they had the kid or kids and the wifey started going back to work. Is this becoming the norm now? One guy I know owned a few car dealerships. He was financially destroyed after the settlement. I know of one doc who jumped off a bridge after the settlement. His now ex-wife is already with another guy.

What's going on here?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I've known quite a few men that I have a business relationship with where they're going or had been going through a divorce. This seems to had increased over the last year or two in the metro ny area in my professional circles. It seemed to me this happened after they had the kid or kids and the wifey started going back to work. Is this becoming the norm now? One guy I know owned a few car dealerships. He was financially destroyed after the settlement. I know of one doc who jumped off a bridge after the settlement. His now ex-wife is already with another guy.

What's going on here?
Theres no war on men and no increase in men being fleeced.
 

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I've known quite a few men that I have a business relationship with where they're going or had been going through a divorce. This seems to had increased over the last year or two in the metro ny area in my professional circles. It seemed to me this happened after they had the kid or kids and the wifey started going back to work. Is this becoming the norm now? One guy I know owned a few car dealerships. He was financially destroyed after the settlement. I know of one doc who jumped off a bridge after the settlement. His now ex-wife is already with another guy.

What's going on here?
Women know they want a kid or two out of that guy. They get it and the situation changes.
 

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Kids completely change the relationship dynamic some couple adjust better than others.
I can tell you that its not always the women leaving
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I've known quite a few men that I have a business relationship with where they're going or had been going through a divorce. This seems to had increased over the last year or two in the metro ny area in my professional circles. It seemed to me this happened after they had the kid or kids and the wifey started going back to work. Is this becoming the norm now? One guy I know owned a few car dealerships. He was financially destroyed after the settlement. I know of one doc who jumped off a bridge after the settlement. His now ex-wife is already with another guy.

What's going on here?
What’s going on is called divorce rape. Happens to men every day.

She gets the wedding, children, provisioning, status, etc.

Then because of no fault divorce, she can blow up the marriage for absolutely no reason, and walk away with cash and prizes (half his wealth, child support, alimony), all funded by her ex husband.

Happens. Every. Single. Day.

-Augustus-
 
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It’s called having your cake and eating it too. See, if the welfare of her children are secure, she can go back on the carousel and play.
 

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Women are completely Fcking clueless and are legitimately ships lost at sea. They want kids... they want to get taken care of.... they want to be the house wife.... until they watch 50 shades of gray. Then they want and entirely different thing... the only think that has a somewhat successful rate of keeping females in line is a strong male that they respect. If you want a stable loving relationship it’s a ton of work. Or you can just bang peak Smv... and keep repeating until you retire to Thailand and have a new 20 year old house guest that cooks, cleans and grants your every wish.
 

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it's obvious by now that women don't want monogamy. it's been a ****ty deal for them ever sense it became the norm in the world a few hundred years ago.

women are supercharged sex creatures, who instinctively don't like being shackled down as a peice of cattle by some suited up beta male.

men complaining about the modern moral values society we live in now a days is falling because of "runaway" awalt women ruining everything and are evil.

the patriarchy we live in today needs to be fvxking stopped for fvck sake.

something of over 100 million people were killed last century due to wars? was that caused by women? or men?

beta males caused that and women hate their fvcking guts. womens fairytale conditioning and the need to survive in society still rides on the fact they have males to support them when they have children.

so they survive and take advantage or they end up like Uma Thurman from les miserables loloolol
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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speed dawg

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I've known quite a few men that I have a business relationship with where they're going or had been going through a divorce. This seems to had increased over the last year or two in the metro ny area in my professional circles. It seemed to me this happened after they had the kid or kids and the wifey started going back to work. Is this becoming the norm now? One guy I know owned a few car dealerships. He was financially destroyed after the settlement. I know of one doc who jumped off a bridge after the settlement. His now ex-wife is already with another guy.

What's going on here?
It's probably because you clowns are using terms like "wifey".
 

Who Dares Win

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I dont find anything wrong in what women are allowed to do as long as men are given the same chance, is it a "team" or a "free for all" things?

If its a team then whoever breaks it for no good reason should be punished not rewarded while it fits a free for all deal then both the parts can say fvck it any moment and leave with nothing due to the other.

Nowaday it seems like the woman has to have it all and the law is basically built to achieve that result even before anything happens.

Anyway women want a top 20%er and even if their age or lack of chances forces them to settle with a beta, they will find a way to secure their needs and try again and again and again.
 

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Anyway women want a top 20%er and even if their age or lack of chances forces them to settle with a beta, they will find a way to secure their needs and try again and again and again.
Men must learn to accept this cold truth.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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