"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Pop out a kid or two and they jet. Is that becoming the standard?

SpeedDemon

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I've known quite a few men that I have a business relationship with where they're going or had been going through a divorce. This seems to had increased over the last year or two in the metro ny area in my professional circles. It seemed to me this happened after they had the kid or kids and the wifey started going back to work. Is this becoming the norm now? One guy I know owned a few car dealerships. He was financially destroyed after the settlement. I know of one doc who jumped off a bridge after the settlement. His now ex-wife is already with another guy.

What's going on here?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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mrgoodstuff

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I've known quite a few men that I have a business relationship with where they're going or had been going through a divorce. This seems to had increased over the last year or two in the metro ny area in my professional circles. It seemed to me this happened after they had the kid or kids and the wifey started going back to work. Is this becoming the norm now? One guy I know owned a few car dealerships. He was financially destroyed after the settlement. I know of one doc who jumped off a bridge after the settlement. His now ex-wife is already with another guy.

What's going on here?
Theres no war on men and no increase in men being fleeced.
 

mrgoodstuff

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I've known quite a few men that I have a business relationship with where they're going or had been going through a divorce. This seems to had increased over the last year or two in the metro ny area in my professional circles. It seemed to me this happened after they had the kid or kids and the wifey started going back to work. Is this becoming the norm now? One guy I know owned a few car dealerships. He was financially destroyed after the settlement. I know of one doc who jumped off a bridge after the settlement. His now ex-wife is already with another guy.

What's going on here?
Women know they want a kid or two out of that guy. They get it and the situation changes.
 

lamath

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Kids completely change the relationship dynamic some couple adjust better than others.
I can tell you that its not always the women leaving
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Augustus_McCrae

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I've known quite a few men that I have a business relationship with where they're going or had been going through a divorce. This seems to had increased over the last year or two in the metro ny area in my professional circles. It seemed to me this happened after they had the kid or kids and the wifey started going back to work. Is this becoming the norm now? One guy I know owned a few car dealerships. He was financially destroyed after the settlement. I know of one doc who jumped off a bridge after the settlement. His now ex-wife is already with another guy.

What's going on here?
What’s going on is called divorce rape. Happens to men every day.

She gets the wedding, children, provisioning, status, etc.

Then because of no fault divorce, she can blow up the marriage for absolutely no reason, and walk away with cash and prizes (half his wealth, child support, alimony), all funded by her ex husband.

Happens. Every. Single. Day.

-Augustus-
 
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It’s called having your cake and eating it too. See, if the welfare of her children are secure, she can go back on the carousel and play.
 

Machine10033

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Women are completely Fcking clueless and are legitimately ships lost at sea. They want kids... they want to get taken care of.... they want to be the house wife.... until they watch 50 shades of gray. Then they want and entirely different thing... the only think that has a somewhat successful rate of keeping females in line is a strong male that they respect. If you want a stable loving relationship it’s a ton of work. Or you can just bang peak Smv... and keep repeating until you retire to Thailand and have a new 20 year old house guest that cooks, cleans and grants your every wish.
 

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it's obvious by now that women don't want monogamy. it's been a ****ty deal for them ever sense it became the norm in the world a few hundred years ago.

women are supercharged sex creatures, who instinctively don't like being shackled down as a peice of cattle by some suited up beta male.

men complaining about the modern moral values society we live in now a days is falling because of "runaway" awalt women ruining everything and are evil.

the patriarchy we live in today needs to be fvxking stopped for fvck sake.

something of over 100 million people were killed last century due to wars? was that caused by women? or men?

beta males caused that and women hate their fvcking guts. womens fairytale conditioning and the need to survive in society still rides on the fact they have males to support them when they have children.

so they survive and take advantage or they end up like Uma Thurman from les miserables loloolol
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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speed dawg

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I've known quite a few men that I have a business relationship with where they're going or had been going through a divorce. This seems to had increased over the last year or two in the metro ny area in my professional circles. It seemed to me this happened after they had the kid or kids and the wifey started going back to work. Is this becoming the norm now? One guy I know owned a few car dealerships. He was financially destroyed after the settlement. I know of one doc who jumped off a bridge after the settlement. His now ex-wife is already with another guy.

What's going on here?
It's probably because you clowns are using terms like "wifey".
 

Who Dares Win

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I dont find anything wrong in what women are allowed to do as long as men are given the same chance, is it a "team" or a "free for all" things?

If its a team then whoever breaks it for no good reason should be punished not rewarded while it fits a free for all deal then both the parts can say fvck it any moment and leave with nothing due to the other.

Nowaday it seems like the woman has to have it all and the law is basically built to achieve that result even before anything happens.

Anyway women want a top 20%er and even if their age or lack of chances forces them to settle with a beta, they will find a way to secure their needs and try again and again and again.
 

speed dawg

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Anyway women want a top 20%er and even if their age or lack of chances forces them to settle with a beta, they will find a way to secure their needs and try again and again and again.
Men must learn to accept this cold truth.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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