"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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edited to remove wasted space,

was just a bad story of playing the nice guy for long time gfriend
 
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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Not sure what advice to give

You could try writing your posts a little more clearly.

Too hard to understand what you're saying.:)
 

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Well, uhm.... yeah. Someone want to narrow down the hell he's talking about? Does he want this girl or what? I got confused at the point where he didnt call her and she called 3 days later.
 

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Kwah---how's this for narrow?

He was a player, now he's not.

She's a player. He's being played.

He wants her, he can't have her.

He can't accept that fact and will get played again if she needs something.

But right now she's gotten almost all of the value out of him that she can. She may keep in contact for practice.

That's my read on it.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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sorry4 confusion, story probably not worth reading if it was written correctly,

Originally posted by TesuqueRed
Kwah---how's this for narrow?

He was a player, now he's not.

She's a player. He's being played.

He wants her, he can't have her.

He can't accept that fact and will get played again if she needs something.

But right now she's gotten almost all of the value out of him that she can. She may keep in contact for practice.

That's my read on it.
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LOL Red, great interpretation, "keep in contact for practice" hehe i wouldnt be surprised if she dont need another favor soon. T not getting anymore favors. the favor was already givin before her playing began.
 

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Re: sorry4 confusion, story probably not worth reading if it was written correctly,

Originally posted by PETE379
... i wouldnt be surprised if she dont need another favor soon...
Look over the situation and what you know of her again. My guess is that you will find someone who gets thru life by getting people to do favors for her or by getting the other person to take on her problems as their problems. They may do it from the innocent angle, the victim angle, the you-might-have-a-shot-me angle, the show-me-what-you-can-do-bigboy angle, the... etc. 1000 variations, same game. Like poker...
 
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