“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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PETE379

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edited to remove wasted space,

was just a bad story of playing the nice guy for long time gfriend
 
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What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Not sure what advice to give

You could try writing your posts a little more clearly.

Too hard to understand what you're saying.:)
 

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Well, uhm.... yeah. Someone want to narrow down the hell he's talking about? Does he want this girl or what? I got confused at the point where he didnt call her and she called 3 days later.
 

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Kwah---how's this for narrow?

He was a player, now he's not.

She's a player. He's being played.

He wants her, he can't have her.

He can't accept that fact and will get played again if she needs something.

But right now she's gotten almost all of the value out of him that she can. She may keep in contact for practice.

That's my read on it.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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sorry4 confusion, story probably not worth reading if it was written correctly,

Originally posted by TesuqueRed
Kwah---how's this for narrow?

He was a player, now he's not.

She's a player. He's being played.

He wants her, he can't have her.

He can't accept that fact and will get played again if she needs something.

But right now she's gotten almost all of the value out of him that she can. She may keep in contact for practice.

That's my read on it.
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LOL Red, great interpretation, "keep in contact for practice" hehe i wouldnt be surprised if she dont need another favor soon. T not getting anymore favors. the favor was already givin before her playing began.
 

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Re: sorry4 confusion, story probably not worth reading if it was written correctly,

Originally posted by PETE379
... i wouldnt be surprised if she dont need another favor soon...
Look over the situation and what you know of her again. My guess is that you will find someone who gets thru life by getting people to do favors for her or by getting the other person to take on her problems as their problems. They may do it from the innocent angle, the victim angle, the you-might-have-a-shot-me angle, the show-me-what-you-can-do-bigboy angle, the... etc. 1000 variations, same game. Like poker...
 
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