"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Poor Harry

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Here's what getting involved with a professional victim can do to your life:


Meghan has previously spoken about the “almost unsurvivable” toll of online abuse and said she was the most trolled person in the world in 2019.

This whole saga is a prime example of what can happen when you invite the wrong people into your life and don't know how to say no. Literally one of the richest, most privileged people in the world is now living in LA chained to a woman that has essentially made him unemployed and with no direction in life.

Didn't they leave it all behind and move to LA precisely to make a living out of their celebrity status? Now apparently the fact that trolls say mean things (as they do about anyone famous) means that this plan is cancelled with no plan B.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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i'm more surprised its not they sayng they will divorce lol
 

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I am quite sure that he will be fine eventually , he is quite a chad

But this is a good example in regards to the idea that even chads have tough times with women
 

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He made the mistake of following her and what she wants. He was in a good position to go about his own life the way he wanted to and have a girl follow him in that pursuit and support his cause. But we know that didn't happen. Perhaps if his mom was still around, it could've been different...
 

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what a fcking cuck, just like vast majority of U.K. men from what I saw in my time there from 2018-September 2020
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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There are some additional ways Harry is giving up his own image, balls and self respect?
 
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