"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
pook email?
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
The Gambler
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Some people think he's dead... Others believe he might be lurking under a different name. Personally, I think he slowly changed and became much more cynical towards women, when you look at the things he wrote in his blog after leaving here.
Well, at least we've got his classic stuff. I read it often.
i admire pook too and im in trouble, so i needed to talk to him, and i found his blog place : dapook.blogspot.com
and he wrote there that people sent him messages, so i was wondering if i could find an email or something that could could help me contact him
The Gambler
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You are right, he was responding to emails when he was still blogging... But even that has been a few years ago now.Freddy.k said:The gambler,
i admire pook too and im in trouble, so i needed to talk to him, and i found his blog place : dapook.blogspot.com
and he wrote there that people sent him messages, so i was wondering if i could find an email or something that could could help me contact him
Maybe an oldtimer around here still has it?
iqqi
Master Don Juan
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Kind of like Pook.
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Yeah it's not like we have a resource of other successful DJ's like backbreaker, Rollo Tomassi, Iceberg, Naughty Ninja, Atom Smasher, 5 string, Espi, Solomon and etc. we can ask questions.iqqi said:I'd say ask squirrels, but he has since disappeared from the forums.
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Kind of like Pook.
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I'm not sure what happened to squirrels or Pook and I hope they are fine but this is one of those "celebrity dies at young age" obsessions. Yes they had eye opening posts. But also yes people on the site today can help.
One day people like all of those I listed are going to be gone and some of them will be missed and people will ask if you know so-and-so's contact but nobody will know. Ask for advice when the expert posters are here, not after they disappear and become legend.
Samual Pook is the name he used.