"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
pook email?
- Thread starter Freddy.k
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
The Gambler
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Some people think he's dead... Others believe he might be lurking under a different name. Personally, I think he slowly changed and became much more cynical towards women, when you look at the things he wrote in his blog after leaving here.
Well, at least we've got his classic stuff. I read it often.
i admire pook too and im in trouble, so i needed to talk to him, and i found his blog place : dapook.blogspot.com
and he wrote there that people sent him messages, so i was wondering if i could find an email or something that could could help me contact him
The Gambler
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You are right, he was responding to emails when he was still blogging... But even that has been a few years ago now.Freddy.k said:The gambler,
i admire pook too and im in trouble, so i needed to talk to him, and i found his blog place : dapook.blogspot.com
and he wrote there that people sent him messages, so i was wondering if i could find an email or something that could could help me contact him
Maybe an oldtimer around here still has it?
iqqi
Master Don Juan
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Kind of like Pook.
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Yeah it's not like we have a resource of other successful DJ's like backbreaker, Rollo Tomassi, Iceberg, Naughty Ninja, Atom Smasher, 5 string, Espi, Solomon and etc. we can ask questions.iqqi said:I'd say ask squirrels, but he has since disappeared from the forums.
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Kind of like Pook.
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I'm not sure what happened to squirrels or Pook and I hope they are fine but this is one of those "celebrity dies at young age" obsessions. Yes they had eye opening posts. But also yes people on the site today can help.
One day people like all of those I listed are going to be gone and some of them will be missed and people will ask if you know so-and-so's contact but nobody will know. Ask for advice when the expert posters are here, not after they disappear and become legend.
Samual Pook is the name he used.