"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
pook email?
- Thread starter Freddy.k
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
The Gambler
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Some people think he's dead... Others believe he might be lurking under a different name. Personally, I think he slowly changed and became much more cynical towards women, when you look at the things he wrote in his blog after leaving here.
Well, at least we've got his classic stuff. I read it often.
i admire pook too and im in trouble, so i needed to talk to him, and i found his blog place : dapook.blogspot.com
and he wrote there that people sent him messages, so i was wondering if i could find an email or something that could could help me contact him
The Gambler
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You are right, he was responding to emails when he was still blogging... But even that has been a few years ago now.Freddy.k said:The gambler,
i admire pook too and im in trouble, so i needed to talk to him, and i found his blog place : dapook.blogspot.com
and he wrote there that people sent him messages, so i was wondering if i could find an email or something that could could help me contact him
Maybe an oldtimer around here still has it?
iqqi
Master Don Juan
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Kind of like Pook.
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Yeah it's not like we have a resource of other successful DJ's like backbreaker, Rollo Tomassi, Iceberg, Naughty Ninja, Atom Smasher, 5 string, Espi, Solomon and etc. we can ask questions.iqqi said:I'd say ask squirrels, but he has since disappeared from the forums.
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Kind of like Pook.
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I'm not sure what happened to squirrels or Pook and I hope they are fine but this is one of those "celebrity dies at young age" obsessions. Yes they had eye opening posts. But also yes people on the site today can help.
One day people like all of those I listed are going to be gone and some of them will be missed and people will ask if you know so-and-so's contact but nobody will know. Ask for advice when the expert posters are here, not after they disappear and become legend.
Samual Pook is the name he used.