"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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pook email?

Freddy.k

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hi
does anyone know if pook has an active email??
i really need his help so it would be great if anybody could tell me the email pook is using currently to reply on people's question
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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The Gambler

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That's the million dollar question. No one seems to know.

Some people think he's dead... Others believe he might be lurking under a different name. Personally, I think he slowly changed and became much more cynical towards women, when you look at the things he wrote in his blog after leaving here.

Well, at least we've got his classic stuff. I read it often.
 

Freddy.k

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The gambler,
i admire pook too and im in trouble, so i needed to talk to him, and i found his blog place : dapook.blogspot.com
and he wrote there that people sent him messages, so i was wondering if i could find an email or something that could could help me contact him
 

The Gambler

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Freddy.k said:
The gambler,
i admire pook too and im in trouble, so i needed to talk to him, and i found his blog place : dapook.blogspot.com
and he wrote there that people sent him messages, so i was wondering if i could find an email or something that could could help me contact him
You are right, he was responding to emails when he was still blogging... But even that has been a few years ago now.

Maybe an oldtimer around here still has it?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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ArcBound

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iqqi said:
I'd say ask squirrels, but he has since disappeared from the forums.

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Kind of like Pook.


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Yeah it's not like we have a resource of other successful DJ's like backbreaker, Rollo Tomassi, Iceberg, Naughty Ninja, Atom Smasher, 5 string, Espi, Solomon and etc. we can ask questions.

I'm not sure what happened to squirrels or Pook and I hope they are fine but this is one of those "celebrity dies at young age" obsessions. Yes they had eye opening posts. But also yes people on the site today can help.

One day people like all of those I listed are going to be gone and some of them will be missed and people will ask if you know so-and-so's contact but nobody will know. Ask for advice when the expert posters are here, not after they disappear and become legend.
 

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I think he just married some chick and doesn't want to admit it.
 
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