"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Pook, being real, and why the 'cerebral

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i just read this post by pook and i think it puts everything in perspective.

for those of you that havent read it its HERE

the whole world is getting laid all the time. guys figured sh!t out before the internet and without tons of the analysis we do now days.

basically if you read that thread i don't think you'll ever want to try to learn about sexuality from an intellectual approach.

i think, as i did, you'll want to leave the world of technique and enter the world of experience.

you might even want to be yourself.... whatever that is.

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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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so what post is it? The link still dosent work.

It must be a secret.
 
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I think that post by pook is in the bible. And as pook tends to do, he takes things too far to make you go out and try sh-t. If you say "experience is important" which is the truth, most people on this forum will keep reading instead of going out and trying the techniques. If you say "experience is EVERYTHING," most readers will be that much more determined to get out there and work. Don Juanism is a balance of the intellectual "techniques" and experience. Eventually it will all just come naturally, until then the methods in the bible and on this forum posted by some of the better writers are extremely helpful.

The guys who go out and get laid all the time don't have to worry about forums like this-True. But we were out there, and we weren't getting laid all the time. Now we come here to learn why. Those guys getting laid all the time usually have no idea why other guys find it hard. What they do comes naturally, and they don't understand why they are attracting women either.

If you come here you learn not only how to attract women, but how these rules of attraction work. You will have a more complete knowledge, learn more about yourself and of course be much better at attracting women. So use both your knowledge and experience to master the art, and it really is an art, of attracting women.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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