"Blank Mind on Dates? She's Dropping Hints You Keep Missing"

The plates get cleared and the silence lands like a brick. You can feel her waiting. Your brain offers up your commute, your job, the weather — topics that have ended more second dates than bad breath.

Here's what most guys never learn: women hand out free conversational material all night long. Tiny clues about what they actually want to discuss. Catch them and you never run out of things to say — because she's telling you what to say next.

Rule 4 of the "22 Rules" trains your ear to catch every single one.

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Pook, being real, and why the 'cerebral

DEKKA

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i just read this post by pook and i think it puts everything in perspective.

for those of you that havent read it its HERE

the whole world is getting laid all the time. guys figured sh!t out before the internet and without tons of the analysis we do now days.

basically if you read that thread i don't think you'll ever want to try to learn about sexuality from an intellectual approach.

i think, as i did, you'll want to leave the world of technique and enter the world of experience.

you might even want to be yourself.... whatever that is.

discuss.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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so what post is it? The link still dosent work.

It must be a secret.
 

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I think that post by pook is in the bible. And as pook tends to do, he takes things too far to make you go out and try sh-t. If you say "experience is important" which is the truth, most people on this forum will keep reading instead of going out and trying the techniques. If you say "experience is EVERYTHING," most readers will be that much more determined to get out there and work. Don Juanism is a balance of the intellectual "techniques" and experience. Eventually it will all just come naturally, until then the methods in the bible and on this forum posted by some of the better writers are extremely helpful.

The guys who go out and get laid all the time don't have to worry about forums like this-True. But we were out there, and we weren't getting laid all the time. Now we come here to learn why. Those guys getting laid all the time usually have no idea why other guys find it hard. What they do comes naturally, and they don't understand why they are attracting women either.

If you come here you learn not only how to attract women, but how these rules of attraction work. You will have a more complete knowledge, learn more about yourself and of course be much better at attracting women. So use both your knowledge and experience to master the art, and it really is an art, of attracting women.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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