narcissist said:
I am honestly not experienced enough yet to make that decision. I am honestly not sure if sex or relationships are more important to me. I have only had one serious relationship and have only had sex with 17 girls.. So very inexperienced. I think the most important thing to me is bettering myself
But what i do know is that even if we are in a relationship we get urges and all I'm saying is i would rather the girl tell me then repress it. And vice versa. I think the relationship could benefit from having sex with others. But then again I've never experienced it so it's all speculation
Well, you're only 21 so I wouldn't even recommend monogamy at your age. A young man needs to gain experience with women, and he needs time to enjoy life and have his fun. When I talk about monogamy, I'm talking about later in life when you have gained experience, sown your wild oats, learned what kind of woman you want, learned how to attract her, have grown tired of chasing random tail, and are ready to settle down with a girl of your choice (if indeed you ever are ready - not everyone is). That said, I still do not think that it is always healthy to give in to your carnal desires without any discrimination. These are the same people who end up masturbating 15 times a day, lol.
As for your second paragraph there, I cannot possibly imagine what good could come out of the girl you are with having sex with some other male. Definitely not for me, thanks.
