"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Polyamory or Monogamy?

Polyamory or Monogamy

  • Polyamory

    Votes: 3 16.7%

  • Monogamy

    Votes: 15 83.3%
  • Total voters
    18
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Jaylan

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It depends on the man or woman. Some men and women can handle polyamory...others cannot.

I cannot emotionally and medically handle it. Meaning I would get jealous and always be paranoid of my health status. Its trouble enough to worry about 1 other person being concerned for your health. I cant keep tabs on the other people a girl would be banging if I was into the polyamory thing.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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zekko

zekko

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narcissist said:
I am honestly not experienced enough yet to make that decision. I am honestly not sure if sex or relationships are more important to me. I have only had one serious relationship and have only had sex with 17 girls.. So very inexperienced. I think the most important thing to me is bettering myself

But what i do know is that even if we are in a relationship we get urges and all I'm saying is i would rather the girl tell me then repress it. And vice versa. I think the relationship could benefit from having sex with others. But then again I've never experienced it so it's all speculation
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Well, you're only 21 so I wouldn't even recommend monogamy at your age. A young man needs to gain experience with women, and he needs time to enjoy life and have his fun. When I talk about monogamy, I'm talking about later in life when you have gained experience, sown your wild oats, learned what kind of woman you want, learned how to attract her, have grown tired of chasing random tail, and are ready to settle down with a girl of your choice (if indeed you ever are ready - not everyone is). That said, I still do not think that it is always healthy to give in to your carnal desires without any discrimination. These are the same people who end up masturbating 15 times a day, lol.

As for your second paragraph there, I cannot possibly imagine what good could come out of the girl you are with having sex with some other male. Definitely not for me, thanks.
 
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