"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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POLL: Would you wear this t-shirt

Island

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I'm thinking of a T-Shirt that prominently says "NO RESPONSIBILITIES WITHOUT RIGHTS".

Would you wear this?

Would you, an established PUA or DJ, be willing to wear this?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I didn't ask what's a cool shirt to wear.

I asked if you'd be willing to wear a shirt that said "NO RESPONSIBILITIES WITHOUT RIGHTS".
 

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Originally posted by Island
Would you, an established PUA or DJ, be willing to wear this?
Who cares what you wear? If you're thinking you'll be more "DJ" by wearing it, think again. Clothes (while important), are unimportant if you follow my meaning. Wear whatever you want, it's your style you're promoting, not somebody elses.

That being said, no, I wouldn't wear a shirt that says that. May as well have one on that proclaims "I'm with stupid".
 

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I've always wondered what would happen if I wore a t-shirt that says "I'M ROCK HARD FOR JESUS" to a Christian rock concert.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Maybe you should concider wearing an Atari shirt...that way people will think you're a complete dork, instead of a partial one.
 

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nm, read question wrong.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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this one is much better.....

I saw this nice ass t-shirt, but unfortunately they only had XL which didnt fit me.

"The best friends are Friends with benefits"

Exactly as it said, with a stick figure of guy and girl standing together.
 

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It isn't a DJ shirt per se. It's more of a political one.

You must have seen the "My body my choice" shirts and all that. I think we may need an answering cry.

I just want to know your opinions on the matter.
 

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Are you guys familiar with the men's rights movements in your countries?

If you don't like the idea of custody abuse, if you don't like the idea of unequal divorce laws, if you don't like the idea of unequal parenthood and right to life rights, and especially if you don't like the fact that feminist theory dominates gender based discussions in media and academia, then perhaps this T-Shirt is for you.

I will accept No responsibilities without being accorded rights .

No responsibilities without rights

A catchy slogan that you should use. It is time that individual men represented their ideas on gender on an equal footing as feminists.

The context of the blurb would be up to the individual man to decide, of course.

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I hope that explains a little bit. Certainly do give me feedback. Oh ya, I'm not selling T-Shirts or anything. Just trying to start a small wave.
 

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I prefer those walmart 10buck shirts, plain and simple.

No I would not.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I'll wear that shirt when there's a female president.
 
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