"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
POLL: Would you wear this t-shirt
- Thread starter Island
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
http://www.tshirthell.com/store/product.php?productid=111
diablo
Master Don Juan
Who cares what you wear? If you're thinking you'll be more "DJ" by wearing it, think again. Clothes (while important), are unimportant if you follow my meaning. Wear whatever you want, it's your style you're promoting, not somebody elses.Originally posted by Island
Would you, an established PUA or DJ, be willing to wear this?
That being said, no, I wouldn't wear a shirt that says that. May as well have one on that proclaims "I'm with stupid".
diplomatic_lie
Master Don Juan
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
PRMoon
Master Don Juan
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
I saw this nice ass t-shirt, but unfortunately they only had XL which didnt fit me.
"The best friends are Friends with benefits"
Exactly as it said, with a stick figure of guy and girl standing together.
If you don't like the idea of custody abuse, if you don't like the idea of unequal divorce laws, if you don't like the idea of unequal parenthood and right to life rights, and especially if you don't like the fact that feminist theory dominates gender based discussions in media and academia, then perhaps this T-Shirt is for you.
I will accept No responsibilities without being accorded rights .
No responsibilities without rights
A catchy slogan that you should use. It is time that individual men represented their ideas on gender on an equal footing as feminists.
The context of the blurb would be up to the individual man to decide, of course.
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I hope that explains a little bit. Certainly do give me feedback. Oh ya, I'm not selling T-Shirts or anything. Just trying to start a small wave.
Centaurion
Master Don Juan
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.